cuteNEway 42F
1774 posts
6/6/2006 3:47 am

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6/28/2006 1:46 pm


I've found yet another muse! Thank you haversack_smith

His post Smithy likes yumyums has planted a very important question in the garden I call my mind.

Regarding oral sex...

Girls: Have you ever noticed that you give more oral sex than you get? Well I do. And the problem is we do it anyway. Half the time we end up wanting more. Yeah yeah I know there are gonna be the few that say UH UH NOT ME! OK so you've got more balls than me

But lets not digress!! Quite frankly I'm fed up with men thinking that my mouth on their cock is a given! But then they say that they won't go down unless it's the right woman. I fuckin HATE that term "the RIGHT woman", but thats another post altogether.

Back to the subject...Notice how cunnilingus lasts 4-5 minutes in porn while the first half of every fuckin porn movie is a blow job plus the woman gets off the man's cock after every 5 minutes of fucking cuz apparently she HAS to have his cock in her yeeeaahhh...I know there ARE women that get off on that but not as many as the porn gods want you to think!

OK now the men that WILL give you oral mostly will lick half-heartedly for a few minutes and swear that they've pleased you. And the way they do it is porn style...waggin the tip of their tounge in the general clit area and maybe dipping their tounge inside your vagina...

Ummmm guys need to put your whole mouth into it. As if you were making out with it!! You have to kiss it like you'd kiss my mouth only with more tounge! Oh and dipping your tounge in...sorry boys it doesn't make any diff...its like trying to push a limp cock in there! Its best if you lick and suck around that THAT is hot!

So guys I suggest you stop expecting oral sex as a given. If you want oral you better damn well give ME oral...and give it GOOD!!

Girls: If you haven't adopted it yet, here's your new mantra...YOU GET YOURS AFTER I GET MINE!!

tee hee

haversack_smith 41M
6192 posts
6/6/2006 4:13 am

"Girls: Have you ever noticed that you give more oral sex than you get?"

I've noticed the exact opposite, but that might just be me, lol. Not complaining though, I get kinda bored just laying there with a woman sucking me for fifteen, twenty, thirty minutes...

Glad to hear my post inspired you!

rm_openup53 66M

6/6/2006 4:17 am

Finally a woman that says it straight out! I agree. Women need a lot more oral sex than men. They need time, patience and someone who listens to what you say feels good! I love to suck gently on the clit area to make it swell and play with my tongue. You neglected to mention how a lover can enhance cunnilingus using fingers. My blog about Who's Dick Is It Anyway? comes from the same assumption: porn is a jerk-off fantasy that has nothing to do with pleasing women. I hope you find the right kind of lover so you can be unleashed!

free2chose2 67F

6/6/2006 4:20 am

Actually CuteN until recently I really didn't enjoy "IT" being performed on me-----------but now I'm a "believer" lol--but I can't last as long on down there.

Don't worry, be Happy

QueenOfSwords 35F

6/6/2006 4:33 am


alchemistz9 58M

6/6/2006 5:56 am

The real pleasure for me is in getting my partner as horny as can be - the hornier she is, the hornier I am.

And I've found that nothing does it better, or deeper, or more intensely than sinking in there and really, really getting lost in conversation with THOSE lips, that clit, that hole so deep and strong.

Now, it's great if she reciprocates, but not essential.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
6/6/2006 6:05 am

I actually get more oral sex than I give

Purry {=}


ShaneLiveLife 51M

6/6/2006 6:32 am

I'm nice to hear some support for men here - porno movies don't reflect the reality !

For what it's worth I get more pleasure from giving oral sex than receiving it
...... and I'm sure I'm not alone on that
........... am I ?

Live with passion !

ShaneLiveLife 51M

6/6/2006 6:35 am

Its nice to hear some support for men here - porno movies don't reflect the reality !

For what it's worth I actually get more pleasure from giving oral sex than receiving it
...... and I'm sure I'm not alone on thinking that
........... am I ?

Live with passion !

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
6/6/2006 9:49 am

Stop dating selfish bastards. No, for me it tends to be equal, or the balance is tipped in my favor.

BTW, that's always been my mantra.

tillerbabe 57F

6/6/2006 12:31 pm

Yes...I apologize, this is a "copy and paste"..but I have so many people to thank. And, I'm so very tired. is still very genuine nonetheless, I'm just sneaking through to say thank you, Thank You for your kind words in my blog and your well wishes for my Bri.

cuteNEway 42F

6/6/2006 6:14 pm

Haversack baby...It's just you and maybe three other guys YOU are one of the true romancers I wrote about recently!!
Free...I go slow and teasing with the occasional speed-up! Most of the men I've been with prefer that to the porno piston move
Queen...TEE HEE
Dys...We Brass-Balled Broads have that problem because silly little twit girlie men want a Mealy-Mouthed Missy that will say "yes baby" to everything they suggest. We shall find our real men my sistah!
Alchemist...wanna talk?
Take...why do you even ask? we all know yer gonna take it n run anyway've the perfect man. I bow to your greatness...seriously!'re in that same teensy boat with Haversack and the other three
Tuesday...BRAVA!! ENCORE!! >>tossing individual roses to your stage<<

And now a special response for tillerbabe...No one deserves to suffer or fear for their life! With all the blessings going your way I'm positive everything will work out and he'll be healthy SOON!

pendus78 40M

6/11/2006 10:30 am

C'mon guys! It's not the ol' school yard in winter dare to touch the frosty pole with your tongue... get up and in there up to the shoulders, then twirl your head around like it were yoga! Spread them lips asunder like Moses parting the Red Sea (yes, baby... let my people go!), and even better yet, enlist her to take care of that for you, thereby availing your hands to work her buttcheeks, mashing them meanwhile, separating them as well.

Let me shut up before I get myself into trouble.

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