Hugs  

curiousinlorain7 60F
15358 posts
7/23/2006 9:17 am

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7/27/2006 8:34 pm

Hugs


I've been thinking a lot about hugs and hugging lately. Are you a good hugger? THere are all sorts of hugs... that hug your mom makes you give to aunt Tilly even though she creeps you out and smells bad... you know that quick hug that's over as fast as humanly possible. There is that hug you give to a relative you truly love, that nice upper body, more of a neck hug, usually followed with either some back patting or an arm grab. There is the hug you give to a long time work associate you see in a public setting, almost like a hug you gave to your fav relative but a bit more heart into it. Some people give a little cheek kiss with those types of hugs. THere is the hug you give a good friend ... a handshake with benefits if you will. More of the body used, but still pretty quickly done.
Then there is a hug you give to a potential lover. In fact it may even be the prelude to the relationship. A way to show someone that you may mean business and you'd like further hug-gage. You know the type of hug I mean. Just prior to the hug there is the look into each others eye. Eye contact remains until it is not possible to hold it any longer. Your arms slowly move up one arm of your partner while the other one surrounds the waist. Full body kneecap to neck hug. Pressing into one another, no signs of light between the two bodies. one hand softly caressing the hair and neck while the other one explores as much as you can get away with. The nose sniffs the other person's neck and softly touches the ear. The hug lasts far longer than other hugs. Just before parting a small almost undetectable kiss is planted on the ear lobe or nape of neck. And, as the time comes to part... the softest of sighs occur within both bodies as they pull apart...once again very slowly. The shy little downward glance as you part, still touching each other. The quick flash of recognized passion between the two of you just before that one last lingering contact is broken. be warned... if you are a great hugger it can and will lead to some other forms of body contact. SO, once again... what type of hugger are you? and do you 'give good hug'?

goodatpoetry2 68M
16569 posts
7/23/2006 10:48 am

I'm more of a crotch-grabber.
NO! ONLY KIDDING!
I'm more of a soft hugger. Firm, but not hard.
You're locked in there, but you still can breathe.


curiousinlorain7 60F

7/23/2006 12:07 pm

Reminds me of an old Dick Van Dyke shtick where he is shown from the back getting a hug... when he turns around it is just him hugging himself... I feel like that sometimes too. J


curiousinlorain7 60F

7/23/2006 12:08 pm

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    I'm more of a crotch-grabber.
    NO! ONLY KIDDING!
    I'm more of a soft hugger. Firm, but not hard.
    You're locked in there, but you still can breathe.
I'm not quite sure I know what you mean... I'll have to let you hug me so I know exactly what you mean


caressmewell 54F

7/23/2006 12:50 pm

Lovers or potential lovers get the sensual whole body, ear nibbled hug. I give good friends and much loved family/relatives firm/tight hugs with pats on the back, especially if I have not seen them in a while.

I believe I give good hugs.


curiousinlorain7 60F

7/23/2006 1:12 pm

    Quoting caressmewell:
    Lovers or potential lovers get the sensual whole body, ear nibbled hug. I give good friends and much loved family/relatives firm/tight hugs with pats on the back, especially if I have not seen them in a while.

    I believe I give good hugs.
Well you've picked a great blog name for yourself then I love good hugs too thanks for the visit, come back !!


rm_Smile_My_Way 60M
1519 posts
7/23/2006 2:41 pm

I love hugs, I love giving them, but better yet I love getting them.


toothysmile 51M
16517 posts
7/23/2006 3:17 pm

oh, i am very much into hugs. and i have just the hug for the proper occasion too. i am also very good at...
~blushing deeply~
...oh, never mind...
kisses.


SingleWarrior 53M

7/23/2006 3:33 pm

I forgot how to give hugs. Teach me


curiousinlorain7 60F

7/23/2006 4:42 pm

    Quoting big_n3rd:
    I used to hug a lot, until the whole harassment thing blew up. I never got any complaints from the ones I was hugging, but I did get comments from others that thought it was wrong. Just made me a lot more conscious. I do enjoy giving hugs though, just had to cut down on my daily dose.

    grey
Darn those PC police!! they are everywhere! so, are you resorted to doing closet huggage?


curiousinlorain7 60F

7/23/2006 4:42 pm

    Quoting rm_Smile_My_Way:
    I love hugs, I love giving them, but better yet I love getting them.
come here, come a little closer I'll hug you


curiousinlorain7 60F

7/23/2006 4:46 pm

Hop a plane... lessons start next weekend


LookandWink 64M

7/23/2006 6:02 pm

I love hugs! All kinds ... big or small, I love them all!


johnbob00 62M

7/23/2006 6:10 pm

I love to hug. And I have found the best hugs are when you give one to someone for no special reason... other than they just look like they could use one. Those are the kind that have the most meaning. But you are correct in the differences of hugs.... good long ones.. short coincidental ones... meaningful ones... passing moments ones. Maybe we can get together sometime and do an "indepth" study of hugs.


skyking412004 54M
5363 posts
7/24/2006 12:45 am

_____I've experienced all types of hugs. I've been surprised how much I've enjoyed hugging fellow members of A.A. (male and female). It's like we're all family. How I hug depends on who I'm hugging. The best hugs, for me, are the ones where I can feel a flow and exchange of "energies". I think I give good hug.


curiousinlorain7 60F

7/27/2006 5:49 pm

    Quoting skyking412004:
    _____I've experienced all types of hugs. I've been surprised how much I've enjoyed hugging fellow members of A.A. (male and female). It's like we're all family. How I hug depends on who I'm hugging. The best hugs, for me, are the ones where I can feel a flow and exchange of "energies". I think I give good hug.
i think you do too


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