Pulling in Halifax  

curiouscplinNS 40M/38F
18 posts
7/7/2005 6:20 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Pulling in Halifax

Well another weekend is fast approaching. Chances are that Friday night, my bf and I will go out for dinner and a couple of drinks. If we're feeling rowdy, we may go out, and if we're feeling extra rowdy we'll check out the women.
This is something that is quite different to me. First of all, I haven't 'picked up' in years. The last few guys I have dated for any significant period were either introduced to me by mutual friends, or, we were friends ourselves first.
Secondly, Halifax, as I know it, is a pretty conservative city. A girl really can't just march up to a girl and ask her home. So I told my bf he has to do the 'smooth talking'. He's OK with that, he was in the meat market longer than I was, although even he will admit he's a bit nervous when he tells the girl he'd like to take her home, and that his girlfriend is into it too.
Of course, it would be much easier if we could just meet a girl through AdultFriendFinder but the Haligonian girls on the website seem just as finicky as those at the bars... likely b/c they're the same ones. Halifax is not that big.
Now, I'm not intending to offend anyone here.... but it seems like a lot of people on this site just want to exchange pics. They're happy to trade back and forth and chat for a while, but when the actual invite goes out, they're done. Well if all you wanted to do was cyber, why don't you put that on your profile?? It's no big deal. That way people do understand what you are (and are not) looking for.
I must admit, I was on this site before as a single woman and had success, so maybe people are freaked out by the whole couple thing, but again, why put on your profile that you're looking for a couple??
Even more disapopinting are the profiles with no picture, that also don't fill out the physical information. Why would we contact those people? Not only do I not have a pic, you can't even describe yourself?
So we discontinued our Silver membership and are standard members now, and having a threesome together remains a fantasy (we have each had them separately).
Maybe someone can give us some advice on 'pulling'?

chowbox2004 44M
210 posts
7/7/2005 7:40 am

Wow, I cant believe that you are having trouble finding a lover to share! You are a stunning woman. I would love to join a couple for a night of adventure. Maybe most people are curious about the fantasy, but intimidated by actually going through with it? Its not every day that someone asks you to come home with them (couple). I was asked to join two women in college, (my ultimate fantasy) but I chickened out, I dont think that I really thought it could be true, like a set up for some strange practical joke. And was I pissed at myself the next morning when I realized what I passed up on!
Good luck in your search, I'm sure that you will find what you are looking for!

rider2650 64M
2 posts
7/8/2005 7:56 pm

I too find it difficult to believe that you are having trouble locating a third ... I will continue to dream on ....

sexyduo27 38M/41F
1 post
7/29/2005 9:24 am

Wow, we have had the exact same problem. We have been talking about having another sexy woman join us, (obviously one of our ultimate fantasies), for over a year!!!!! So hard to find single women to let loose and have a good time with, definitely a conservative city. Well, we are very serious about living out our fantasies, tired of "chatting", so if anyone is interested....let us know
btw, very sexy pics, curiouscplinns

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