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curious_302 43F
156 posts
7/8/2006 12:31 pm

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One question

Ok, just one question I'd like to get answered.
How long is long enough to chat/email with someone before meeting??? And once it's time to meet where's the best place for it?

Anyone want to share their thoughts?

curious_302 43F

7/8/2006 3:21 pm

Thanks all for the input! It was along the lines of what I was thinking although some would try and convince otherwise.

abitcrazy4sex 46M
1335 posts
7/8/2006 3:06 pm

i have chatted/emailed people for a month before actually meeting them.Others we sent a couple emails , then decided lets meet i am ready to fuck ! it mostly depends on how comfortable you are with the person.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
7/8/2006 2:28 pm

I think that depends on your gut feelings. Always, always meet in a public place first, and have a saftey net prepared just in case. Also, if the meet isn't great.....take care that you are not followed home. Good luck.

DiscretMale2006 47M
1 post
7/8/2006 2:26 pm


Voici mon opinion. En ce qui concerne le temps idéal pour rencontrer quelqu'un depends toujours du taux de comfort qu'il existe. Pour certains, ca sera très rapidement et pour d'autre, plus longtemps. En ce qui concerne l'endroit idéal, tant en autant que tu es comfortable avec cet endroit, vas y.

Amuses toi!!!

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
7/8/2006 1:38 pm

There is no right answer, mostly when you feel comfortable, but like ExPat said, meet in public first for sure...

rm_shaveclean2 57M/44F
691 posts
7/8/2006 1:33 pm

Time depends on You!!! I personally Don't Want to Chat Forever....A Few Emails Back and Forth.....No more than A Month!! The Meeting Should Be a VERY PUBLIC PLACE!!! Maybe A Starbucks if you don't Drink or A Restaurant with A Nice Bar. Start with Drinks if You like Him/Her you can then Decide to have Dinner. If you DON'T Like the Person You can Leave After the Second Drink and Not Seem Rude!!!
Good Luck!!!

g the Female 1/2 of Shaveclean2


expatbrit49 63M

7/8/2006 1:14 pm

how long depends on the people but if you are enjoying chatting them why not meet.
Pick somewhere public for the first meet

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