the offer  

cumgetme696699 49F
15 posts
3/13/2006 6:54 am

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4/10/2006 11:30 am

the offer

The other day a complete stranger on AdultFriendFinder offered to pay my bills in exchange for my companionship and if it lead to sex that was cool with him. he says he has done this a few times, am I right ni feeling that this is some kindof set up?

MONA_14 31F

3/13/2006 4:00 pm

you are invited to be our Friends

rm_bigmig52 65M
378 posts
3/13/2006 5:46 pm

My gut instinct says to be damn wary of that kind of arrangement. The name of this sight is AdultFriendFinder, and it's certainly not a pay for play kind of place. The idea here is to make friends and possibly have some sexual interaction with them. Mona has it right.
If he's being straight with you I'd think the guy has some insecurity problems and doesn't feel he can have a friend without having to buy his way to "friendship". I'd lay odds that you don't need that kind of relationship. It's one thing to date and have a guy pay, it's another to receive an offer like his totally out of the blue.

19605000 37M
1 post
3/13/2006 11:01 pm

You know something, friendship is something that we choose as individuals. It's not like family that were born into. So to buy friendship is an insult.

cumgetme696699 49F

3/14/2006 10:05 am

Guys, I agree with you that is why I have not spoken to him since although he continues to ask everyday...Thanks for your imput! Anyone else have a comment on being a "kept" woman or man....would love to hear them

nympho4free 45M
5 posts
3/17/2006 9:05 am

I agree that this place is to find "friends". I would be insulted as well by the offer, especially with what you put about your situation have your love in another state and not knowing what to do to get physical attention. Have you decided on what you want to do?

cumgetme696699 49F

3/21/2006 9:57 am

No Nympho I haven't....and its not just the physical distance between us anymore but it is also the emotional distance I feel from him everytime we talk....I don't want to hurt him but I don't want to be lonely either...HELP!!!

nympho4free 45M
5 posts
4/9/2006 10:46 pm

Have you decided what to do? I am still available and think that we could help each other out with some mutual no strings satisfaction.

StrayQuailSynch 46M

4/29/2007 5:45 pm


Emotional he is already gone. He may come back and spit game in future when he realizes what he lost.

Just a note: There is nothing wrong with you, he just doesn't want you for him.

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