ctwindy 38F
62 posts
2/9/2006 3:19 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I know this is probably the thing you guys hate most from a woman. But unfortunately most women are born with the talent to be extremely jealous. I am no exception.

What brought me up to talk about this after not updating my blog for a few days is that I actually meet a guy from time to time for the last 2 months. From the beginning, we have the understanding that it's purely sexual, no strings attached. Not because he isn't a nice guy to be with, just I don't think he is a boyfriend material. I know it's still very vague for some challenged minded guys(yes, i am talking about you! Stop jerking!). Let's just say he "enjoys" some company at all time. He could never be alone, whether it's on a business trip or 2 hours break from work. He gotta have some girl with him. Oh no, he is not that kind of play boy who wanna have as many girls as he could because he ACTUALLY could practially get all the girls he wants. He just simply wants someone to be with him, so if some girl is available for him for a whole month, he could be momentarily monogamous(another scary word after jealousy, i think 4 out of 5 guys who are reading this blog would never read my blog any more.).

I am totally okay with this situation, partially it's because I also don't want a relationship right now and frankly I don't want him as a bf. (I guess that's another major difference between guys and girls: guys would gladly take the prettiest girls as their girlfriends, while to girls, it's not as simple as that.) So we only have sex when we are both available and want to. But from time to time, he stil makes contact to tell me all about his exciting sex life. At first it was all fun, but then I found myself feeling jealous toward him. Though if u ask me now, i would still say firmly that I don't want him as a boyfriend. Kinda childish, I know.

They always say you can't get everything u want. U could have a perfectly hot guy, but you also need to accept the fact that he would definitely cheat on you and play around. (though most not-so-hot guys cheat too)

As for the hot guy who I am having sex sometimes, who could get almost all girls if he wants to, well, he, just as so many other things in the world, could always get his own way.

6pkgmn9 68M  
239 posts
2/9/2006 9:13 am

Sounds like someone is maybe getting little attached....and how do think he would feel if you told him same things???
and not all guys cheat..just like all girls don't do or not.
sounds like you were making up "for lost time" when on vacation Hope that your first week back at work is going well

ajax28003 37M
70 posts
2/9/2006 7:21 pm

aha ....that the jack pot 777
when are girls not jealouse?
shit happens dont worry it AdultFriendFinder after all

ctwindy 38F

2/11/2006 12:04 am

haha... I am not getting "attached" with that dude. He is a great guy, but don't think he would stay in Taiwan for long. (yeah, he is a foreigner)

cupido135 59M
2 posts
2/12/2006 9:01 am

What I like about you is that you always write what you feel. Sometimes though you need to give the benefit of the doubt to a person who is close to you.

kepners 43M
1 post
2/15/2006 4:43 am

basically your jealous cuz he's getting fucked

ctwindy 38F

2/15/2006 6:01 am

    Quoting kepners:
    basically your jealous cuz he's getting fucked
this man's got a point!

marcusjapan12 45M
161 posts
2/15/2006 6:48 am

Tell u what I think both of you enjoy sex, like all the people here. Why waste it on only one person. Have fun and move around, from the look of you any guy would be pleased to have fun with you.

verygoodfellow 80M

2/16/2006 5:04 pm

When this guy is telling you about his sexual activities with other girls - is that the time you feel the jealousy and do you also visulize yourself making love to him instead of the other girl? If you answer yes, your attraction to him is stronger than you want to admit. If you admit to that, then you have to decide if this guy is worth your further interest. Girls your age are always active in sex but what you really want is THE man - the one you want to devote your time and energy to and hopefully marry. Tough decisions for you but then, life is full of them and the more decisions you face the easier they become to handle.

MotelCowboy 51M

2/17/2006 2:38 am

I can fill in for him if he isn't available and you feel the need.

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