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crashtlittleone 39M
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6/2/2006 4:05 pm

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6/3/2006 2:37 pm

Is this working?

Hi wonderful people of AdultFriendFinder!
I thought I might add my ten cents worth to this and throw my view down on how interesting becoming a member of AdultFriendFinder has been for me!
I joined one bored day, assuming I might be able to hear from various people with a wide range of background and motives. I have been able to chat to people and have had a certain member actually come over to visit a few times for nothing more than company when we were both having a quiet night by ourselves at home. Now this member has a bright personality and we can talk very easily, but apart from that and that particular member, I'm yet to do more than hear back from a few other's and send the occasional email to the member's I think would suit me and my personality. I don't go for the HOTTEST or the sluttiest, but generally for the most real. I imagine the lady members may get a massive amount of replies and emails each and everyday, however I wonder if it's the same for guys who don't get their anatomy out. I instead there is more to me than one particular part of me and I also know I can make a lady or girl happy with not only that particular item that us guys have. Problem is I am thinking do I need to resort to such a tactic? Should I and would that improve my responses? I am not left wanting downstairs, but I won't say I am MASSIVE. Is there such people on this good sight who do find the time to scratch the surface of a persons outer shell? I'm not so sure. No i don't think I can compare to most people on the bookcover, although I have a heap to offer which I could say most guys aren't willing to offer. The reasons are numerous and I am sure anyone readin this blog will have their opinion on this and most would probably say, "maybe cos you're just ugly". Well maybe I am, but where does beauty in the eye of the beholder come from? Is it shallow to disregard people based on their looks? I know the greatest people I have had the oppurtunity to know are wonderful and brilliant and not becasue of their looks, but because of the fullness about the way they live their lives.
Just a thought on a morning which I ask people to comment. I'd liek to hear both arguments for or against my view because the world would be a very boring place if everyone looked the same, thought the same and had the same social status.

Hope this isn't too D & M for some.


1586 posts
6/2/2006 6:07 pm

I haven't had much in the way of success from this site in terms of meeting people offline, but I have had a lot of fun blogging and getting to know folks on the site.

I've had some near misses (guys that are super-interested initially and then disappear) and one major disappointment. Nothing horrible or earth shattering, luckily enough.

I'm guessing that patience is the key because some people really do manage to connect. I'm out of patience, so I'm just here for the blogs now. LOL

At any rate, I hope you're able to enjoy the time that you're hanging out on the site.

Good post.


P.S.: Most of the women that I correspond with don't like seeing a guy's bits and pieces on display. That is never a good idea. LOL

crashtlittleone replies on 6/2/2006 6:18 pm:
Thanks for the comment, I would be almost in the same boat as you where I think the blog section is really where the real people are as apposed to girls asking for guys to check out their paid site or whatever. Oh and not showing your bits as a girl is better in my books, but I'd like to see responses from those girls who prefer not to see bits from guys as I haven't posted any on my profile.

Thanks again,

Knot4Everyone 41F

6/2/2006 10:28 pm

Hello and welcome! The Blogville tour bus will be departing in about five minutes...

I would imagine this site is a bit different for everyone. I am not looking to meet anyone, but I'm not against it either. At this point I am simply here to blog (as DCEbony said). These things are massively addicting, so consider yourself warned!

My personal opinion about photos here: leave the dick pics in the photo albums! It's like you said - there's so much more to a person! I like the picture you have up right now, but ultimately it's your choice.

Thanks for commenting on my blog, and I hope you have an enjoyable experience here!

crashtlittleone replies on 6/3/2006 1:30 pm:
Thanks for your input ans yes I think I have been bitten by the blog addiction. Now I have done blogs before, but I found myself coming home and loggin on to see if anyone had responded with any interesting comments. I can see this getting out of control.
Now more specifically to your message, yeah I think I'll leave the pics to what I have, I'm not going to take pics of myself because really, if someone needs to see it before they'll either talk to me or want to talk to me, I'd rather not talk to those "like" shallow people "like" anyway! I'd rather do what I am doing and talk to people, with no set idea of what I want out of meeting anyone. So I thank you for supporting me in that way even if you don't think you did.
Happy Blogging!

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