How We Got To Extended Talking  

coupletalking75 64M/67F
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11/12/2005 11:42 pm

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How We Got To Extended Talking

We have talked about getting another man into our bed since before we were married (nearly 13 years now) and have never done it. We hope that this trend will change soon.

During our initial dating period she was somewhat involved in a long distance relationship with another man. Our love making would frequently include my making references to her wonderful pussy and how honored I was to have such an opportunity to touch it, taste it, slide into it and cum in it. This would include references to how other men, including her distant friend, would love to be able to take my place. I would then add that her wonderful pussy deserved not just the best possible lovers, but many lovers. In this sex play I would then be the one that would make love to her last ... thus enjoying sloppy seconds or thirds. The men who made love to her before me were only part of OUR foreplay and it never occured to me that such an arrangement would leave me neglected. I guess that I believe the old hymn "Magic Penny" that has the lines (interpreteted a little differently from the way most congregations would interpret it - including a few minor word changes):

"... Love is something if you give it away, you end up having more
It’s just like a magic penny, hold it tight and you won’t have any,
Lend it, [share] it, & you’ll have so [much], they’ll roll right over the floor.
Love is something if you give it away, give it away, give it away
The magic of love is that the more you give it away, you end up having more ..."

From her reaction to this fantasy talk, I quickly learned that this was a real turn-on for her and I was getting more out of it too. Consequently, her getting so turned-on made it a real turn-on for me.

One time her friend came to visit for a week and I had to make myself scarce so that they could have time together. While I was not happy about my banishment, I needed to, and did, masturbate about four times a day (every day) during that week while thinking about her and her friend and what I imagined they were doing together. Shortly after that week, we became engaged, he disappeared into the mists of time and we lived happily ever after. Our fantasy sex talk never progressed to reality even though I really wanted it to. The "how to arrange it" was always the impediment.

Recently, the urge to actually do it has gotten stronger for me. Earlier this year I had encountered Bill with whom I had an initial conversation about sex and he thought favorably about joining us for a threesome. After many months of pondering I finally contacted him to see if he would still be interested and he said "yes," but with some hesitancy.

With his tentative consent in hand, I told her about a real person named "Bill" who was interested in joining us for all of the things that we had talked about. This brought about the need for doing some of the hard relationship / communication work that we had apparently been neglecting. Full disclosure of fears and desires went both ways.

We verbalized a number of scenarios to see what would work and what would not. These ranged from group massage and only touching ... to ... to her being tied down to the bed, with a leather hood blindfold (can't let it slip off) and her being
used as our toy. After all, good girls wouldn't willingly do this; now would they?; even if they got immense pleasure from being used in this manner.

Our previous blog entry was a composite of a number of different scenes that I knitted together from some of our "calmer" fantasy talk.

One of the interesting things that came out of our discussion was her mild interest in having another woman be part of the adventure. I think that this has a lot to do with me having someone to play with while she is completely occupied by the man. In that blog entry, during the parts where I have my hands tied behind my back while they are making love next to me we frequently would talk about another woman sitting on my face so I could enjoy eating pussy and possibly getting other attention as needed.

So far, Bill has not materalized and as you can see we have joined AdultFriendFinder and are on our way to making our fantasy into a reality. We are concerned about privacy and this system seems pretty good in that regard.

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