concupiscent14u 44M
7 posts
8/16/2006 9:59 am

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i will digress from my recounting of past AdultFriendFinder experiences to rant a bit. as i said in my last post, i have been off and on AdultFriendFinder for the past 6 years. why off and on?? because of what is happening now.

why do people sign up on this site? i'm sure there are various reasons that people have, but i would guess that the basic purpose would be to meet people, in person, for real. i can't for the life of me understand why people don't respond when you email them, or don't actually want to meet in person. there are girls that i talk to from the site who seem very interested but for some unknown reason cannot seem to find the time or put out the effort to actually get together.

i don't mind people who i email who respond and say that they aren't interested. at least they take the very small amount of time required to do that. those who don't have the common fucking decency to send a response and just leave you hanging make me sick. two letters, no, that's all it takes. if you are interested, then exert a little bit of effort and find some time to chat or correspond so that things can move forward. emails back and forth over weeks of time are useless. most people are on this site for the same reason, so why can't we just all be on the same page??

ok, i'm done. i just had to get that out.

rm_neophite333 53M

8/16/2006 10:44 am

They don't respond because they are bombarded with emails from a multitude of single men, and they can have their choice of any of them.

Sorry, dude, but there are a million other guys out there that are younger, better looking, and more successful than you and I.

I feel your pain, though. It sucks, but that's the way it is.

penguinluvr 59M
1087 posts
8/16/2006 11:56 am

Look at it this way, AdultFriendFinder is Junior High to the google power, with all the cliques etc. but on an international scale. Imagine a Jr. High with several million students, and you will have a slight grasp of the situation.


goofywoman26 44F

9/12/2007 2:27 pm

ok so let me answer to all of you.. in my way and situation.. yes i am responding to your email as soon as i finish this.. however.. to let you all know i am a single mom.. most single moms work 40-60 hours a week, have to still cook, clean etc for the kid ( even when the kid is in their teens) and still have to find the time for themselves for such things as daily showers etc.. give us more then 45 minutes to read your emails and respond.. NO NOT ALL OF US ARE HEARTLESS BITCHES THAT ARE ONLY LOOKING FOR A HUSBAND.. i want friends first.. then a relationship and then IF something more comes of it then thats great for the 2 of us.. however please if we dont put what one man did to us on you ALL then dont put what one woman did to you on us ALL .. yes be grown up and also lets play fair here i think its only right to be honest and fair to those who are here.

by the way message me would love to talk to you all

Lickable_Cream 54F
9 posts
12/21/2010 11:30 pm

Great way to put it, Opus!

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