Trust & Love can only be given  

complexlysimple 35M
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6/3/2006 3:22 pm

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Trust & Love can only be given


Again the title pretty much says it all, but I'll elaborate a bit further here..

Love & Trust

These seem to be a couple of the things that would fall into Yoda's "Do or do not. There is no try" -now you know it's going to get deep ..quoting Star Wars .....

A person can neither make someone love them nor trust them, that is something only the person giving can decide to do whether they set conditions, or just let time pass thinking it will "just happen."

Neither one of those methods is going to increase the level of trust, or love in the relationship... if anything I think it would be more likely to deteriorate the the level of trust and love in the relationship -"If you aren't trusting/loving me why should I trust/love you?"

That's where communication needs to come in to sort out the differences.

The funny thing about this is that some people are really easy to love/trust ..since they may realize that they don't deserve it or really feel like they want it

... of course then again there is also the confusion between "love" and "lust" that gets in the way on occasion / ... not fun though I don't really see why someone would let lust control who they look to to spend time with ...seems almost stupid to me

....then again the mind set I have right now I actually being in any kind a relationship seems ...unnecessary

..more of -why would I want anyone else around, I've spent this much of my life alone, I'm content with that, so why change something that works ... about the only real reason I can think of is because "I want to" ... which also means I can be rather selective about who I want to spend time with.....

Well, if that doesn't make me sound arrogant and manipulative I'm not sure what will ...but hey, I'm okay with that.

Arrogance and confidence are pretty much the same thing anyway ...the biggest difference is whether you trust my assesment of my abilities ...

..and manipulative? That pretty much everyone does though it may be called something prettier ... asking them a question isn't much more than trying to manipulate an answer out of them ... interacting, manipulating what's the really diference other than one sounds nicer? ...

Just some thoughts, I decided to share ..though deciding not to be completely lazy today did take a little effort

ThaRealLiv 44M

6/3/2006 4:09 pm

Sometimes I find arrogance and confidence amusing if done humourously. If enough love is given in tha world, it won't matter who you spend time with.


complexlysimple replies on 6/3/2006 4:39 pm:
Very true and thank you for commenting.

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