Pushing for more  

complexlysimple 35M
894 posts
6/18/2006 10:00 pm

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Pushing for more

Ya know, I'm not entirely sure why I'm writing this but I am so here it goes...

Everyone keeps telling me that I should appreciate the fact that I can make female friends rather easily and that friendship should come first -and I don't disagee with any of that ...

...but the thing is I've gone that road so many times already ...and I've always gotten burned -always.

We talk, chat have fun and basically enjoy being around each other ... then the next thing I know off they go with some guy after he's more or less just said "hey, lets go fuck."


Did I miss something? I'm not try to be an ass here, but wouldn't that kind of provoke some rather comments ...women are all just sluts/whores/? ..that and it kinda makes women look like hypocrites or that they don't know what they want.... (which I don't believe and refuse to believe)

So what's a guy to do?

Come on strong, act like an ass and get laid?

...or be the nice guy? ...where the reason you don't finish last is because you never really get to start in the first place...

Just wondering.... 'cause I'd kinda like things to change

oh yeah, I forgot to mention that when these women go off with 'boytoy' I generally get tossed aside like an old pair of shoes ...'nope, don't need/want these anymore'

BaronessK 53F

6/21/2006 1:22 am

Not me {I was young, but I was never a child}, but a lot of younger women don't know what they want or who they want/need it from. It's a maturity thing, not necessarily an age thing. Hell, basically what all Trillogy said! You are wise, for one so 'young'...so either find a young yet mature chick or someone who already is mature {although one without 'baggage' of major sorts!} I do hope you find all that you are seeking for...and more....

complexlysimple replies on 6/21/2006 4:11 pm:
remember that one I was thinking about when I was slobbered up ... I believe she might just be all I could want ... mature yet, I also get the impression she's not much older than me ...now the bad news she's on a different continent ...ther always has to be a downside doesn't there?

BaronessK 53F

6/21/2006 11:37 pm

'bad' is not 'insurmountable', darlin'....

complexlysimple replies on 6/22/2006 4:51 pm:
yeah not much isn't mountable ... didn't feel like resisting that bad joke opportunity

absolutelynormal 57F
6563 posts
6/23/2006 8:24 am

Try asking for what you need.

complexlysimple replies on 6/23/2006 5:17 pm:
yeah -though I'm not sure I need anything just want ... but I am trying that a bit more with someone I'm talking to...

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