More than Just a Walking Dildo  

complexlysimple 35M
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4/8/2006 9:14 am

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More than Just a Walking Dildo


I have to admit it both irritates and amuses me how often a woman will assume that if a guy approaches her it's because he's looking to get laid.

To me, it seems rather rude and arrogant to assume that you are so desirable that every man just wants to get between your legs. (That attitude is a major turn off for me).

Sorry ladies (you're really great ), but NO.

I don't see things as going that way.

The way I see it having sex can be just as (perhaps more in some ways) risky for a guy, because whether it's obvious, or not a woman can do as much harm to a man, as a man can to a woman.

First there's always the risk of pregnancy, no matter how many layers of protection you're using. ...I've even met a couple who had a condom and birth control pill fail them ....they joked about naming the child "Lucky".

Now, I realize a woman bears the child (which is no easy task), but if a guy walks out, he's likely to be considered a deadbeat dad that can't handle taking responsibility for his actions - generally not a good reputation to have, and probabaly not easily overcome. And of course there is the possibility of a financial & legal fight as well.

So obviously there might be a few women that will try and exploit that, especially if a guy seems to have a reasonable amount of potential, some women may even stoop to lying about who the father is, to try and grab a guy. It may just depend on the situation she is in.

Second supposedly guys are all supposed to be these really macho manly critters that are supposed to be able to handle whatever comes their way.

So let us add one abusive, or controlling woman and he's trapped between her and the social expectation that he's supposed to be able to stand up for himself.... and that's just not possible in all cases, because women are not all weak and fragile (I haven't met any that are ) and some women do know how to fight well and actually hit harder than most men.

I'm not talking about just smaller guys either. In college I knew a competitive bodybuilder (he was around 250 lbs and built) that admitted he found one of the women in the weight-room to be physically intimidating, and in a way she was. At about a 150 lbs she was just about pure muscle. Definitely a nice enough woman, she was just muscular enough to be intimidating to him (and probably more than a few other guys).

That's not even including the verbal/emotional abuse that might be hurled at a guy ....."If you ever cry, I'm filing for a divorce!!" ...

Then of course by nature when you're being intimate or are asleep, you're in a rather vulnerable state regardless of whether you're a man, or a woman.

Granted these things not entirely likely, but they are possible (even if not eveyone realizes it).

Which is why, to me, building a foundation of trust seems required if you want to fully enjoy all that sex has to offer.

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Perhaps this is something all the ladies out there may want to think about, because maybe "that" guy really is just an ass, then again maybe he's just acting the way he thinks guys are "supposed" to act.

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Something to think about for the guys as well: Maybe you should think twice about where your willing to stick your dick, because you might just get fucked in a very bad way.

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But those are just my thoughts, so do as you will.

I just do what I do.

MaggiesWishes 61F

4/8/2006 12:49 pm

Some interesting thoughts.

Saw your blog, wanted to say Hello and Welcome to Blogville
I'll be back

warm wishes


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