A Super Stud???  

complexlysimple 35M
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5/15/2006 6:31 pm

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A Super Stud???


Now this is something that's been crossing my mind lately ...more so since I read about a study that concludes that women look at a guy's face to determine whether he's fling material, or long term relationship material.....

And I'm starting to seriously wonder if I don't get subconsciously judged as short term fun.... or a guy to screw while being involved with in a long term relationship.

Okay, I really don't care if you believe this hypothesis, or not. I'm just trying to figure this out, personally I doubt it ....at the same time though I'm not really sure if I should anymore, so let's look at some past occurrences.

1)Walking down the sidewalk in college I've watched a woman more or less me with her eyes ...I watched her eyes go all the way down my body, and back up, pausing at my groin both ways, then looking at me with a "that was fun" facial expression.

2)Another walking experience, this time from the gym ...two actually, though I think it may have been the same woman. The first is her in the backseat of a car driving down the highway (it cut through the campus) crawling over the driver to start honking the horn and screaming. The second occurrence she crawled halfway out the back window and started screaming....and yes I'm pretty sure both times were directed at me, I looked around to to see if there was someone else she could have been screaming at....

3)Apparently women check me out, though I hardly ever notice it myself ...usually it's someone else that notices ... so whether it's heads turning to follow me or what I can't say I really know ...although there have been a couple of times that I look back for a second glance and end up seeing their face looking back at me

4)The "deer in the head lights" look, this one I'm not really sure about, but it happens whether it's just a suggestion of spending time with me, or a more direct question, younger women tend to look like a deer caught in the head lights and can't really answer for themselves, so I don't really bother asking anymore.. besides most of the time women have just drifted into my life anyway.

5)Being stopped by a pair of strippers(?) at the street corner. I'm assuming they were strippers since they handed me a ticket/card/advertisement for free entrance with purchase of a drink to a strip club where a nationally known stripper was performing... suppose I probably should have gone.. but whatever.

6)It starts with a dance. The whole thing started with a bartender (late 20ish?) asking me why I wasn't out dancing, and me being the smart-ass I can be told her it was because she wasn't out there.... so later when both her and her sister took off to the dance floor, I ended up deciding to back up my words and went to dance with both of them ...that lasted about halfway through the song .....before I ditched them - I may have been drunk, but I wasn't impressed with their dancing - and finished the song with a woman that had danced to the left of me seen my face and seemed impressed ... so I finished the song with her, go back to my beer at the bar - where the bartender is waiting for me ....and she complements me on how well I dance

But wait the story gets better, a few days later I was at work (a gas station at the time) talking to a customer when a woman walks in, boyfriend behind her. The customer I'm talking to sees her and starts saying how attractive she is, and that she knows it, flaunts it, etc... while I'm thinking "she looks familiar for some reason". He leaves she turns around ...it's the bartender. Anyway her boyfriend purchases their stuff while she's talking to me and inviting me back to the bar ...

7)At my cousins' place, one of my cousins has one of his many female friends over and is practically on top of her while I'm sitting on the couch opposite of them .... he's feeling her up and she's eyeballing my crotch....

I suppose I could continue this, but as long as it is already ....

Now the thing is even though I can think of all these examples, I'm having a hard time believing that I might just be studly or sexy...

Maybe I just need a woman to grab me by the ears and either tell me or show me .... though I don't want to be just a one nightstand .....

I guess this is just one of those rare things that I just don't understand.

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