A Challenge?  

complexlysimple 35M
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8/25/2006 5:14 pm

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9/7/2006 7:26 pm

A Challenge?


Sooo where's this challenge in/of/to life everyone seems to think exists? (Not trying to be an ass ...but I may very well be

I'm kind of curious because from where I sit it doesn't seem all that difficult ... it's really not all that different than any other game people play ...Monopoly, Life, etc, etc.. okay, yes the stakes might seem a bit higher, but it's really still the same thing... learn the basic rules (however you want to) then go play and tweak things as you go...

I don't know why but I really don't feel all that challenged when it comes down to it ...solutions present themselves if you let them and are willing to listen to what they say... heck the hardest part might actually be deciding which solution to follow. ... mind you this is coming from a guy that has several thousand in college loans to pay off and isn't employed in what he went to college for

... the thought keeps crossing my mind that the last time I felt even slightly challenged was in college ..not the coures mind you, but in a class discussion where I ended up having six other people fire questions at me one right after another ...that's fun ..it was almost as much fun as being interviewed by a panel of 7 (or was it for a military academy nomination when I was in high shcool .... actually to tell the truth most of the things I can think of that I've had fun with usually involve me facing off against a group working together ..or attempting to.

...now I'm not trying to build myself up here since I think everyone else can be or become everybit as capable as I am ... it's just that it seems many choose not to because it would either require too much effort or too much time ... which kind of irritates me since I think the only real obstacle is their own mind ...like the saying goes "Whether you think you can or can't -you're usually right"

now since this is a sex/dating site I'm going to tie this in with my situation and say while I know I can find interesting women to be around what I really doubt is that they'll stay long term or want to really get closer ..perhaps digging into their own minds and make it easy to play the way I'd like to ..... and that's not just in sexual ways ... reality is full of ideas/knowledge/experinces and it might be kind of fun to drink at much as possible ...if not dry - and with someone so it can be share/relived/talked about.....

BaronessK 53F

8/26/2006 12:41 pm

Well, of course; didn't you already know all this?


complexlysimple replies on 8/28/2006 6:28 pm:
yeah, but this is one of the first times I've intetionally shared it

Etherealbreeze 55F

9/1/2006 12:02 pm

Hi, in a way... that's what Tantra is all about. Sharing everything, even if that means respecting the other's right to go off on his/her own tangent. Then being able to talk to each other about the experience.
It's good to see you're sharing something intentionally.


Luv, Roz

I am Roz , a rose that's ephemeral and rare. Yet always here! Hugz!


complexlysimple replies on 9/5/2006 3:49 pm:
I think I like this tantra... I wonder if I haven't learned it without realizing I've learned it...

Etherealbreeze 55F

9/5/2006 4:02 pm

    Quoting Etherealbreeze:
    Hi, in a way... that's what Tantra is all about. Sharing everything, even if that means respecting the other's right to go off on his/her own tangent. Then being able to talk to each other about the experience.
    It's good to see you're sharing something intentionally.

    Luv, Roz
Indeed, maybe you know that's what you desire...but have you learned it? Only you can say.

Roz


I am Roz , a rose that's ephemeral and rare. Yet always here! Hugz!


complexlysimple replies on 9/7/2006 6:46 pm:
learned? hmmm maybe learning .. and as for desire..I have a fairly good idea though putting words to it is rather ...difficult

Etherealbreeze 55F

9/8/2006 2:41 am

    Quoting Etherealbreeze:
    Indeed, maybe you know that's what you desire...but have you learned it? Only you can say.

    Roz
In some ways words are absolutely useless, because everyone hears what they want to....again the different perceptions of the same reality. This has to do with feelings, that are behind the words...and this I know you have. So it's a question of being less verbal, but more feeling. You can do it...this is the separating the chaff from the wheat. You are a very sensitive and caring person.

Roz

I am Roz , a rose that's ephemeral and rare. Yet always here! Hugz!


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