Why can so few men please a woman  

cockpleaser1980 37F
90 posts
7/8/2006 6:21 am

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12/16/2006 8:09 am

Why can so few men please a woman

I hav always been pretty easily persuaded into fucking a guys on here but I am become less likely to jump on a guy for a fuck now.

Hav met so many guys on here and lucky if 10% of them really made me cum and really enjoy it. Will have to go back to seeing a selected few that are great company again.

Never really been into women that much except licking pussy when I feel dirty but starting to think it maybe the way forward. [/color

bipolybabe 56F

7/8/2006 7:26 am

So, why do you think so few can actually please a woman?

Is it a lack of information or a lack of desire to please, as in, they're really just interested in getting off for themselves in a nice, warm, wet hole rather than in their hands?



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expatbrit49 63M

7/8/2006 7:29 am

If I had to guess I would say that maybe they have been around your age... younger guys think of one thing getting themselves off.

Just a thought

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madeyalook4me 45M

7/8/2006 7:35 am

I would say the opposite. I have never left any woman unsatisfied. As a matter of fact most cannot handle me. Several I have been with had never even had an orgasm before me. Sometimes being too huge can hurt a gal.

rm_mainevern 52M
10197 posts
7/8/2006 7:36 am

(shrug) I've always thought that is was a control issue to withhold the return favor of the "big o". I'm just the opposite way. At lot of the fun for me is being able to drive the woman I'm with to a very noisy, shred the bedsheets, climax . If I don't, I feel like I'm denying myself something as well.

Of course, it's harder to do that with some women than others. I take that as a challenge, not a chore.

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rm_hornyscot247 41M
29 posts
7/8/2006 10:12 am

it boils down to the fact that as long as they cum most men out there just don't care.

theonlyone135 54M

7/9/2006 2:17 am

the simple fact that you live in the UK is a good start, god look at the bad teeth, and the attitudes the UK guys have, all they care about is, has long as i get mine, who cares about her.
Us canadian boys, take pride in making sure our ladies enjoy themselves. I personally make sure she cums before i do, and i make dam sure it happens too, for the bot hof us.

joopdog3_isatwat 32F

7/10/2006 9:33 am

Oooooo look at the self proclaimed sex God, if that was not a shameless advert for your self i don't know what is.
Before you go slagging of UK guys take a look at your self, beer gut no testimonials and only 5 friends.

If you want to know what a real man is like take a look at hornyscot247 or as i prefer to call him, mr multiple

lassothemoon999 47M

7/14/2006 6:28 pm

suppose its all in the state of mind of the guy ur fucking... most guys dont have problems cumming so whats wrong with being a wee bit considerate, if i get a girl off its always certain to get me off too. im sure u must get plenty of offers, and i wldnt mind the oppertunity to please. but ultimately if ur having some no strings fun then you gotta expect some poor results as most guys dont care about the women involved not really... but then again i think you already know that... you dont seem like a " silly wee lassie"

take care and drop a line if u fancy a chat sometime

n1c3guyJB 38M
13 posts
7/22/2006 5:19 pm

Sad, but true - most men realy cares for themselves.
But us, the good guys suffer later, cause "All men are the same"
I had a relationship once with a girl that was used to quick, unsatisfying sex (abusive ex). She was in 7th heavens with me but in the end she said it was too slow and that she was almost bored.
Some girls just get used to wham-bam-thankya-maam guys.
Don't worry, I keep my fingers crossed for you to find a realy decent guy who will know how to treat you.
(Of course, If you would want to try it with me... drop me a line - details on my blog)
Take care.

GuyFromEK 50M

8/6/2006 9:55 am

Well it does take two to tango as they say, good sex is about both partners having input and hopegfuly your notjust lying there hoping the world will move

cockpleaser1980 37F
18 posts
8/7/2006 5:10 am

I don't know if its just that they care for themselves or they don't know how to really hit the spot. Certainly the younger guys take less time and care over my pussy but I have only met a couple of guys that can really lick my lips and clit like a woman can.

Suppose it maybe that women understand it better and know what turns them on. Its got to the point with new guys I meet, that I just take control, lie them down, get on top and ride their cock in the way I love it, finger fucking my own arse to make sure I cum just as quick as he will.

I am happy howerer with a few guys that I see as much as I can, they know how it is and put no pressure on me to see them.

GuyFromEK 50M

8/9/2006 4:01 pm

Seems rather strange to me, your a good looking girl with a grreat body as you know so seems strange the guys dont take there time over a night with you.

Am sure you still get plenty of offers but if your eve stuck drop me a message

NutBuster1974 43M
1138 posts
8/15/2006 11:59 pm

well dont give up, there are guys out there that give priority to their partners first

rm_bdbds 44M
1 post
8/19/2006 6:50 am

Certainly the younger guys take less time and care over my pussy but I have only met a couple of guys that can really lick my lips and clit like a woman can.

I would love to show you that a man can too. I would be happy to lick your pussy for ages, letting you sit on my face and squirm your lovely hot juices all over my face.


rm_bubster1979 38M
3 posts
9/2/2006 6:36 pm

My god the the guy guys you meet must get a good deal! If someone with a body like yours wanted to throw me down and fuck my brains out whilst fingerin her own arse I'd let her get on with it.
Maybe you should make it clear from the start if that's what they want to look elsewhere.
Why not try someone for whom sex doesn't come quite so easily ( no pun intended) and tell them what you expect.
A less confident guy may shoot their load alot quicker but you can guarantee he'll do everything else in his power to please you.

whoper666999 38M
1 post
9/6/2006 3:43 am

guys need to take more time be more gentle and not juat think with there head (the one down below )

its the first thing every man should is make a woman come

rm_yap168 48M
11 posts
10/2/2006 3:47 am

Hey! All I can say is if given the chance I would like to try to satisfy you.

rm_hornyscot247 41M
29 posts
10/12/2006 7:21 am

when i was younger i was selfish in bed only played with a pussy to get it wet so i could get my dick in their.

now over the years i have became more experienced i now love foreplay and if it's done right it can be as good sex it's self, exspecialy when it involves my face being buried in your crotch.

speaking of which nothing better than going down on a woman licking her clit and fingering her pussy while keeping eye contact at all times,
you can tell a lot just by looking at a womans eyes you know when you have hit that sweet spot
i love to see that look on a womans face as she is about to cum
to see her hole body start to shake and i try to keep my tongue on her clit and my fingers on the g-spot as best i can as she thrashes about screaming her lungs out

I now practice Tantric sex what is that i hear you ask
well to put it simply i can cum with out ejaclulaing and go all night

rm_jason4746 38M
1 post
10/22/2006 3:11 pm

I think a lot of it has to do with conecting with the women and understanding what she's feeling in that time and moment and working together in time, and breathing together in time is very sexual.

davrian998 63M

10/24/2006 8:05 am

From long experience I can say sex peformance is chemistry and mood --- with two random individuals sometimes the mixture of chemicals just dosen't explode.

Interestingly some of the best sex I have had is with people I didn't fancy or sometimes even like.

Of course some people are just selfish "fockers" that just don't try to please the other party

rm_ctid86 31M
4 posts
11/3/2006 6:00 pm

I'd do my absolute best to satisfy you if I had the chance to - otherwise I'd feel a bit bad that I got more out of it than the girl (or girls if I ever get that fortunate) did. And I'm a young guy, not even 20 yet. Just depends on the type of guys you're picking I guess - you'll avoid those who want to do something for you like me and continue to be swayed towards those who leave you unsatisfied and give you good reason to add to this blog hehe.

This group's got me written all over it - not had the chance for a 3some or moresome but it's something I'm really wanting to do, and it's my first visit to this blog.

cockpleaser1980 37F
18 posts
12/16/2006 8:09 am

Thanx for all the comments guys, will get down and dirty wid as many of you as possible but I am a women in demand.

rm_orgasm253 36M
6 posts
12/18/2006 11:17 pm

u r certainly in demand with a body like that. Lol. Me pesonally i wud lick a girls pussy as long as she wanted me to until i made her cum or even give her a wee treat after her coming back from a hard days work my ex girlfriend had a high sex drive n so do i. The most i fucked for was 6 times in one day but i only last for about a couple of mins but each time i cum i wud make her cum first by licking her pussy because its only fair, she came every day i was with her.

servicetosociety 41M

12/20/2006 9:59 am

At your service C.

servicetosociety 41M

12/20/2006 10:16 am

Answer the question service: "Why can so few men please a woman" ( ? )

Dunno, cant comment on other guys.
If i had no affinity with a woman, i wouldnt be meeting her.
If i have some kind of affinity with her, and we meet, then how could there be a problem?

bi_glasgow_guy 37M

1/2/2007 1:53 pm

i would take a guess and say most of the guys you have shagged are straight and everyone knows how boring and crap straight people are in bed.
x x x

goldenbrownscot1 42M

3/22/2007 3:11 pm

hahhahaah ive never not pleased a woman orally- and i HATE women who wont take some licking(they exist trust me)-if i cant lickOuT i think its almost all wasted, and theres nothing better than sending ur wife/partner/fuckbuddy off to work after an intense oralizing hehehe x

26yomsav 35M
1 post
1/30/2009 6:57 pm

you've already had too many suggestions. here's some more
im sure you don't hit the bed as soon as you meet up. y not talk and get to know the guy n what he knows before you start the act and end up disappointed. better still, take the lead. could be as simple as landing your crotch on his face for an oral. or pushing your tits into his mouth.


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