I'm not waiting long  

rm_coathanger1 49M
713 posts
2/24/2006 8:45 pm

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I'm not waiting long

I asked on another post if you were willing to wait for sex in a relationship.

I have only ever had two dating type of relationships that lasted more than a few weeks. For the most part I never really needed girlfriend because I knew the girls that would give me what I wanted. I would either go see them and get it there or we would go out, party and then get some. When it was done we were done.

On the first relationship, I met here a week before I turned 18. Wasn't much, just a hi, "I am" and a few eye contact moments. The next weekend I met her again. This time I was with the slut of the moment since I was sure I wanted to get some for my birthday. She told me at that time we should get together later that week.

She came to my work at quitting time and suggested we go out for something to eat and go for a drive. I was still broke from my birthday and she offered to pay. I was thinking to myself, A nice looking girl who is willing to pay for the fist date, cool.

We went to the only kinda nice restaurant in that tiny little town. After that we went for a drive, in her car. We rode around for about an hour or so talking and noticing the country side. We were just riding along and then she decided we should find a place to park.

She slowed and found an entrance to a field and parked on the far side of it. We talked for a few and an got closer, and closer and well the next thing I knew we were in a serious kiss. It didn't take long from there to get naked. I didn't want a blow job, I wanted pussy. I started to go down on her but that wasn't what she wanted either. We wanted to fuck. I laid her back in the front seat and had my way with her. We moved to the back seat for more room. Then again with her standing next to the car. I turned her around and got some more. Then back to the back seat to finish the job.

I finally had a girlfriend that wanted sex as much as I did. We had sex at every possible opportunity. She paid for most of out dates, I can't help it, that was so cool. We always had a great time together. I might would have stuck with her for a long time until I was informed by a cop that she was a prostitute. That explained why she always had money even though she didn't have a job. She did tell me once she was in public relations but never would elaborate on that one. Anyway that news ended that relationship.

The second one was with my wife of nearly 19 years now. I'm not gonna write that story, I'll let her do it. But there is a common thread with her. She paid for our first date and we had sex on it.

As for the question, If I'm in a dating relationship, I want sex soon. First date would be great, second date would be good too. I'm not sure it would make it to a third without sex.

I know it sounds like I'm only interested in sex from a woman but it's not. I like being friends with a woman just as much as I like sex.


sassybelle21 34F  
13313 posts
2/25/2006 12:46 am

I am your friend and Julie's as well See he's speaking the truth. We don't even have sex!!

rm_coathanger1 49M
859 posts
2/25/2006 7:27 am

    Quoting sassybelle21:
    I am your friend and Julie's as well See he's speaking the truth. We don't even have sex!!
Ya know, if you didn't live on the other side of the globe, we might could fix that not having sex thing .

I do have some friends that are women and get this, I don't even flirt with some of them. Yet I still consider them good friends. This post is more in reference to a dating relationships.


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