A very distant but vivid memory...  

clitalicious67 50F
2596 posts
4/17/2006 3:51 am

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A very distant but vivid memory...

I was going through my divorce back about 1998 and to say it was ugly was an understatement...but with that being said my focus was on just getting by day to day...coming to work was 8 hours of peace...

My divorce had been dragging on for 8 months and I had not been going out or much of anything but trying to keep my head above water...but...

There was this man that worked in my building and he would come to my office to work on the computers when they were down...we had chatted for a couple of years prior to my divorce and it was always friendly and respectful...we were the same age...and OMG did he smell good...I might have been married but I wasn't dead and when this man walked into a room...YUM!

Well he knew I was going through a divorce and suddenly our conversations turned a bit more personal as time went on...and he told me he wasn't seeing anyone and that it had been almost 6 months since he had been with a woman...of course I chuckled...almost snorted (yes if really tickled it can happen but shhhh) and said well I feel your pain but it has been almost a year plus for me...the conversation turned to other topics and then after a while he left...only to return later that day...I was in the office alone...and he came and sat right next to me...not only did the man smell delicious he had these eyes you could drown in...

He said you know I was thinking about our conversation earlier and maybe we could help each other...well I about fell out of my chair...my heart skipped a beat...I felt hot...probably even blushed at this point...(yeah me blushing...)

I felt giddy and nervous and I got up to put something away...he came up behind me ran his hand from my thigh to my neck and then cupped my face...well yeah you guessed...I was had...

We set up a time to meet that nite...he was not willing to wait...he cooked dinner for us...when I got to his house he met me at the door with a glass of wine...I took one sip he pushed me against the wall and kissed in what I could only describe as a scene out of a movie (whew)...dinner was a blur...(did we even eat?)

I will have to say...that man took up all his pent up sexual urges and took me to places I hadn't been in ages!!!!!!

We developed a friends with benefits relationship that lasted several months and it was great! We both moved on to date others...and he is actually married now...and I see him in the halls every now and then...and I just smile...and he does too...because I know underneath that business suit and serious demeanor there is a man full of passion...

Who says you can't mix business with pleasure?

Have you ever had an office affair?

Clita



rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
4/17/2006 5:36 am

YOWSA! This is steamy!!!!

I had an office affair with Sail and we had some pretty interesting moments

Purry {=}

Purry


rm_Sylent72 45M

4/17/2006 9:56 am

I never have but, there are a couple of people who I have met that make your heart stop, and your body urge. Like standing on the edge of a pool and looking straight down knowing that if you jump, you can never go back. I have been there but have never jumped! That is when you start asking the "what ifs"!


rm_Keystone3812 66M
583 posts
4/17/2006 9:57 am

Whew! That story made my day, Clita. Thanks!


rm_4nik8_4u 62M
2501 posts
4/17/2006 1:35 pm

Close. I'm sure if you or Purry were in the office I would not have been able to restrain myself! If you both were, I'd be doomed!

4nik8_4u


pandoo5 61M
398 posts
4/17/2006 1:35 pm

We are still friends but no benefits because I felt guilty. I was married then, but you felt good and at the time seems you needed something too.


clitalicious67 50F

4/17/2006 4:12 pm

    Quoting rm_PurryKitty2:
    YOWSA! This is steamy!!!!

    I had an office affair with Sail and we had some pretty interesting moments

    Purry {=}
It was very steamy...we did some role playing (which was new to me) and blindfolds...very sensual...I am smilin' just thinkin' about it!


clitalicious67 50F

4/17/2006 4:13 pm

    Quoting rm_Sylent72:
    I never have but, there are a couple of people who I have met that make your heart stop, and your body urge. Like standing on the edge of a pool and looking straight down knowing that if you jump, you can never go back. I have been there but have never jumped! That is when you start asking the "what ifs"!
Sylent the what ifs will get ya everytime...I am glad for once I jumped into the "pool" instead of timidly testing the waters...no regrets on that one!


clitalicious67 50F

4/17/2006 4:14 pm

Keystone so glad I did!!!


clitalicious67 50F

4/17/2006 4:15 pm

    Quoting rm_4nik8_4u:
    Close. I'm sure if you or Purry were in the office I would not have been able to restrain myself! If you both were, I'd be doomed!

    4nik8_4u
4nik8...I think maybe Purry and I would be in trouble....you have that dangerous charm going on...


clitalicious67 50F

4/17/2006 4:15 pm

    Quoting pandoo5:
    We are still friends but no benefits because I felt guilty. I was married then, but you felt good and at the time seems you needed something too.
Pandoo it was truly a turning point in my life sexually...I am not sorry it happened...


Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
4/17/2006 11:05 pm

I did once...and it was a diaster.

I couldn't get away from her...if I was at work, she stay over or call in the middle of the night for hours. If I were off work, she'd call me at home. If I went out with friends, she'd have one of her girlfriends keep tabs on me.

The worst was when she expected me to go to bat for her when the hotel owners cracked down on her for too many mistakes. It was shortly afterwards that I broke it off with her. Never again.

Old saying: "Don't get your honey where you get your money"
Or "Don't get your meat where you earn your bread"

Just my opinion..and I could be so far off, it ain't even funny.

NG61


clitalicious67 50F

4/18/2006 3:42 pm

    Quoting rm_LQQKie4U:
    Yes, and incredibly horny woman at my work, huge tits and a incredible urge to be satisfied! Nice....story, thanks for sharing...

    Good to see you...in chat land!

    Have been getting pool ready...so days are getting close for me to be in water!!!
LQQK lol yeah I knew what your answer would be...giggling...

It was great getting to chat with you in that crazy room!!! A real treat!


clitalicious67 50F

4/18/2006 3:44 pm

    Quoting Nightguy_1961:
    I did once...and it was a diaster.

    I couldn't get away from her...if I was at work, she stay over or call in the middle of the night for hours. If I were off work, she'd call me at home. If I went out with friends, she'd have one of her girlfriends keep tabs on me.

    The worst was when she expected me to go to bat for her when the hotel owners cracked down on her for too many mistakes. It was shortly afterwards that I broke it off with her. Never again.

    Old saying: "Don't get your honey where you get your money"
    Or "Don't get your meat where you earn your bread"

    Just my opinion..and I could be so far off, it ain't even funny.

    NG61
NG funny you should say "Never get your honey where you get your money" because that is my motto as a rule...but this was different...we both knew what we needed and wanted and were very open and honest about our expectations...that was really the first time I had had a friend with benefits...I trusted him too and that helped we had known each other for quite some time...so it worked well.

With that being said I know that office affairs are like a double edged sword...sorry yours turned out badly...

Clita


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