clifhanger696969 60M
50 posts
6/17/2006 10:35 am

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007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
6/17/2006 10:56 am

If you are getting responses but no meetings then you are dealing with the wrong women. No one can tell you whats wrong with those women except those women you have to ask them. I imagine you are only trying to hook up with women in your area? If so then I will just have to wish you luck and say hang in there it takes time to meet.

Women may also be looking and what your interests are. And if they don't match they don't respond wanting to meet.

I wish I could tell you what to do and how to do, you have to do that on your own.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

ilsuconu 57M

6/17/2006 12:23 pm

Well... stop trying so hard! Relax! Why do you think it's called "buried treasure"... 'cuz that's the best kind -- it's more valuable, and worth the trouble to find.


6/17/2006 12:48 pm

Usually bloggers have better odds of being who and what they say they are but of course there are phony, game playing bloggers as well. But at least , for the most part , they have decent enough skills with spoken and written language.

That cannot be said for many "profile only" members.

Good luck,

Almost nobody interests me in my local area too and that is a very common scenario here.

Be patient and just express who you really are. Somebody out there wants someone like you. But they'll never know you're there unless you reveal some of yourself.


luv_bunny4u 52F

6/17/2006 12:54 pm

I find it a Hit & miss, get many responces but find it hard for many peoples schedules to match up to meet in person, many people need to post or send in an email their availaibility an cut the BS in my if your finding yourself with many PENPALS you should ask more UPFRONT questions to those women to see what they realy want!

Panthiest 74M

6/17/2006 1:39 pm

I think this is an ongoing problem not only for you but many guys and many women too. I have to remember that although this is an "adult" site for people with strong libidos, there are a few factors to consider: I'm hearing that many men & women are here because their marraige has beocme sexlessly boring and their relationship can't/won't discuss it so they come here, reply and freeze. I also think that because this IS an adult site, there is an extra eliment of caution being taken and ANY reason/hint/thought to stop -stops things very quickly.
Then there's that elusive, misuinderstood thing called "chemistry" which is often used as a self-deceptive excuse for not jumping into the pool....Jeez, this is a good question that could go on for ages and probably has.

Still, I think that if someone writes a flattering email and for whatever reason changes their mind, they should show a little class and send a note to let you know and not leave you hanging on.

justhere4fun002 59F

6/18/2006 10:05 am

I am one of those women that Tnwitchwoman was referring to. If you can't put some time and effort into your post, email, or profile I pass right over you. I am also single so i prefer not to hook up with married men because they tend to get complicated. Plus you have to sneak around and I don't need to do that.

I was shocked when i received over 150 emails in the first week i put my profile on this site. 99% were not someone i would be interested in but i did meet a couple nice people here. I have also met some real nut cases, so i guess patience is the one thing you need here if you ever expect to meet someone for real.

Ckiffhanger, you didn't post a "cock" pic like many do. I like seeing a face when i am trying to get to know someone. Seeing a posted cock pick isn't going to make me want to get to know you. I can't vouch for all women on here but I know I would rather see a nice head and shoulders picture on a profile then his privates.

Good luck.

UWannaPlay67 51F

6/18/2006 11:03 am

I am one of the women you are talking with and NO I am not playing any head games.

I am not able to be on the Internet at all times, I am also married and do have a family that I wish to keep in the dark in what I am doing. Playing with a playmate isn't easy to do but I have NEVER lead you to think, I am not real nor am I playing games. I just can't respond to every note you write for one reason or another. Forgive me, please!

Scheduling a play date does take patients and time. Our daily schedule doesn't co-insides
with each others at this moment, doesn't mean I don't want to play, just have to keep trying on both parts.

Luckycharmlady64 58F
11 posts
6/21/2006 5:58 pm

I don't know i assume your married, this web site makes me second guess if I should even be on it but it is so popular and you get to see alot of people I get alot of responses and i do believe it is what your willing to put into the site I get disgusted and don't take the effort to search wink add to hotlist it all takes alot of time and when I don't do that I get little responses If you push harder for what you want you get more options, I just want someone all for me and the odds are against me but if I have the right frame of mine, I do know that I am at my best fand always up for ther challenge I don't quit I don't accept defeat, but time is hard and I can set my own schedule I work for myself I have got bumbed out many times, we all want and have different desires it time to expand I think and create my own blog good luck

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