Sexual Aggression?  

chuchotte2 51F
4002 posts
9/18/2005 6:30 am

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Sexual Aggression?

Earlier in my blog, I believe within the first week of creating this place, I asked my fellow bloggers and readers if they preferred the member of the opposite sex to be passive or aggressive.

There was a good variety of responses which pleased.

For myself, it is very mood dependent, usually I am much more passive but right now, I am feeling very aggressive.

This past week of solutide did it to me, I swear! lol

I cannot help my mind wandering in so many different directions at the moment, whether it be in my bed, in a moving vehicle, parked on the side of the road, in the park, at the movies...where ever!

Right at this very moment, my mind is wandering to oral stimulation, not the receiving end but the giving end. There are just those times when and where does not matter, but the having it is all that counts.

This is something that I very much enjoy, VERY MUCH in fact and I am told I am very good at it.

It has always been said that if we enjoy something, we should practice practice practice, to perfect it and well, I think I have acheived that goal.

There is nothing like being on a partially deserted road, of which there are many in the area where I live, getting out of the vehicle and just giving that little nudge to my partner to have him leaning against the vehicle or over the hood and there being no mistaking what it is that I want and need, and getting right down to business so to speak.

There is always that little rush of wondering if someone will happen upon us and how exactly we will react to the situation but luckily, this has rarely ever happened *chuckles*

So all of this to say, I am feeling sexually aggressive today...which in turn is leading to sexual frustration.

Yes, there is always masturbation to ease that need but? It is just not the same, sometimes just need that human touch after all...

Ever have those moments?

mygmyg 60M

9/18/2005 9:01 am

Chuchotte, absolutely get your mood, desire, need and wanton lust to GIVE to another.

As you point out, this is not satiated by masturbation, as it is as lust for the feel, scent, taste, of performing on another. Plus the moaning, groaning, gasping, muscle clenching, shudderring, hands/fingers brushing through ones hair, earing grabbing, and being pressed to when that fuse has just been lit, all enhance and increase the "giving pleasure".

This was not what I neede to be "MULLING" over in my pervin' mind, but OH YES do I have those, these moments!!!

I'll do you if........

rm_Haitchman 62M
3 posts
9/18/2005 11:44 am

I like the way you're not really sure if you want anyone to come along ... which means, of course, that part of you DOES want that to happen. Do you want to be caught, do you think? Or do you just want to be seen?


rm_luke69iner 49M
3275 posts
9/18/2005 5:10 pm

i'm having one of "those moments" because of your post Hotte

S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo

rm_VoodooGuru1 50M
2053 posts
9/18/2005 8:01 pm

"there being no mistaking what it is that I want and need, and getting right down to business so to speak. "

I really dig it when a woman is in this mood you speak of... but wants to be on the receiving end of oral. Not really a Dom thing, but rather, an attitude of "I am fucking horny, and I want my pussy eaten NOW, and you're going to do it, bitch!"

BTW - was in your lovely country last night... had a wonderful time. Got a pocketful of Canadian dough left over (loonies, twoonies, and a tenner) and have no use for it now....

Alias_46 58M

9/18/2005 8:12 pm

so many questions... even some you might not be asking...

yes to being aggressive and yes to being passive... there are moments when I find I want one or the other or even both.

yes to being caught off guard and nudged back against my car and feeling that warmth engulf me.

yes to the rush from the thought of being caught.

yes to the frustration that solitude can bring.

yes to human touch we all desire.

and yes Yes YES to "Ever have those moments?"

harpie8 49F

9/19/2005 2:26 pm


I know exactly what you mean. For the most part I'm quite submissive with a man that can take charge. But recently I've had 2 episodes where i was the take charge kinda gal lol. I think I need more practice at it though. Even had the unknown exhibitionist in me come out very recently.....very out lol

beewulf9 39M

9/21/2005 4:02 am

I appreciate you talking about this Chuchotte, I find I tend to lead more but sometimes to show affection it is nice to be the opposite.

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