Pet Peeves?  

chuchotte2 51F
4002 posts
10/9/2005 3:09 pm

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Pet Peeves?

Hey everyone,

Pet peeves, we all have them right?

Well here is mine.

People that manage to make it on your msn for one reason or another and you start chatting, find out you have some stuff in common and then comes the time to exchange pictures.

The pictures are exchanged and I am the type that if you are simply not what I am looking for I will apologize and say so, but emphasize that I hope that we can still chat.

Most times though, I do not get a chance to do this seeing as they see a pic or webcam shot and BAM! They automatically shut down *chuckles*

Now I am not foolish enough to think that the way I look will appeal to everyone but heck, if good conversation is shared, is that not a a good thing? What happened to being polite?

Unless of course they live by the motto of "If you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all?"

It sure hardens up what is considered a nice lady sometimes...maybe I should let the Scorpio in me come out more often *chuckles*

It's a good thing that I keep my sense of humour when it comes to this place.

RailBaron2 55M

10/9/2005 6:53 pm

Hi Chuchottie, We Scorpios are known to sting from time to time, especially if someone makes the mistake of stepping on us. Just because a person is not what someone is looking for romanticly or sexually , doesn't mean they cannot be friends, There are several woman on this site that are too far away,ect. But I have no problem saying Hi & chatting. Jim

harpie8 50F

10/9/2005 7:52 pm


I'm sorry that you've come across people like that. Its rude and very inconsiderate. Some of the best conversations going happen between people that have no 'physical' attraction to each other. I have friends that I've communicated with for years online, that I'd never consider entering into any kind of physical relationship with. They are people that you can get into some pretty deep conversations with, without fear of 'putting them off of you'. Chuchotte, don't let these few people jade you into closing yourself off to what could become a great friendship. I think you've got tons to say that is both meaningful and relevant. I enjoy reading your blogs and was very happy to meet you a couple of weeks ago.

rm_Wolfmster 66M

10/9/2005 9:13 pm

Guess I would have to see the "pic in question" to make an intelligent
response to your post.

rm_VoodooGuru1 50M
2053 posts
10/10/2005 4:26 am

I'm sorry some ass-clown was rude to you, Whisper.

harpie8 50F

10/10/2005 5:14 am


I will probably be there Thursday. I look forward to those nights as a time to escape my madhouse for a while. Hope you can make it

Alias_46 59M

10/10/2005 4:17 pm

I agree Chuchotte... as Harpie said, I have met a few people that I wouldn't become sexually or romantically involved with but am thankful to consider a freind... it makes me smile!

Some on here don't seem to have the time for anything other than a quick meaningless romp... I'm sorry but even though this is a sex site, there is more to life!

Keep blogging and hopefully see you Thursday!

rm_Wolfmster 66M

10/10/2005 9:29 pm

Such a forward suggestion-- I'm sure I can handle a whole peek.

rm_Wolfmster 66M

10/11/2005 4:32 am

What's up on Thursday?

rm_Wolfmster 66M

10/11/2005 7:11 am


rm_luke69iner 49M
3275 posts
10/13/2005 5:18 pm

Don't let the rude fucktards get you down Hotte

It's best to weed them out early. Anyone can fake that they are nice if they want something. You don't want to waste your time chatting with someone that is just hiding their innate rudeness. Thank them by posting their handle so other ladies don't get trapped by their lies.

You're much nicer than me. Whenever a local girl is interested in me I make sure to tell them all my negative attributes right away so I don't have to waste my emotions on those who can't deal with it.

Must be the Scorpio in me

S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo

rm_Shadow_Kitty 31M
20 posts
10/14/2005 9:31 am

Hey Chuchotte, speaking of MSN...where have you been? Did you change addresses, 'cuz I haven't had a chance to talk to you in a good while! I wonder if you even remember me, we chatted a bit during the summer.

I agree though...politeness is important, and there's more to a person than looks, by a LOT!

2inOttawaLooking 39M/40F

10/18/2005 9:36 pm

Hey there.

Gotta say, love this post.

Agreed, people should say what they think more on this site or when dealing with people from the site.

No need to be rude about it, but if you see a pic or meet the people in person and you really just are not interested then say so. We are all adults here and know that everyone is looking for something and you just might not be it.

That doesn't mean that the people are going to enjoy being turned down but they are grown up and will move on to someone that is interested.

So say what you mean, and mean what you say. Be polite and respectful and they will respond in stride.

Just the way we see it.
K and B

rm_wpgdock 60M
1 post
11/4/2005 6:52 pm

been reading your blogs and do find them interesting. since i am new to the ottawa area.....nice to lewarn something and know things are no matter what cities i have lived in. but yes.....somepeople ned to learn to be considerate of others feelings...we all got them....but alas not always sen that way....but i agree with you.....although i have no one on msn from the ottawa area......would be nice to establish some friends here
take care!

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