Karma Will Be Your Enemy  

cherrybomb_1963 54F
38 posts
3/20/2006 12:59 am

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Karma Will Be Your Enemy

I've been having problems here on AdultFriendFinder and wanted to get it off my chest. For the most part I have a blast, but wonder if the popularity is worth the headache.
I came to this site for fun. I lost my Mother and then my son 3 weeks later a little over a year ago. My life didn't make much sense at the time. A friend, (most locals know who she is)told me about the site to get my mind off things. Well, it sure worked, I was having soooooo much fun, it should have been against the law. I met some wonderful people right away. But as I gained attention, and met more people....it started to change rapidly. As long as I stayed at home in the country, people (some) were happy. God forbid I actually hook-up with a man. After knowledge of me doing exactly that was made public, jealousy started rearing its ugly head everywhere. Shit talkers abound. I know alot about local AFFers, but dont broadcast their business, I just sit back and allow the losers (you know who you are) to bash me repeatedly. Guess what? I'm not kissing your 2 faced asses anymore. Are you jealous because I get 75+ emails a day? TOO BAD. Are you jealous because I have more opportunities than you do? TOO BAD. I'm tired of bitches (you know who you are) worrying more about where my pussy is than my mother would, and tired of the played, loser, useless men (and you know who you are) running around like 4 year olds, flapping your ignorant gums to men and women I care for. You won't change who I am, what I have, or where I'm going, so quit wasting your and my fucking time. Get a life and get out of mine. And as for how much experience I have, jealous fucks, did ya ever think maybe I had an awesome teacher? Check yourself, your slippin.
I will always get mine, its my character. Try being real, you might learn something about yourself. I am NOT a slut...I exercise pussy-control....thats the fun of this whole thing. I can choose who I want to please, not be desperate and try to find my self-worth in "giving it up" to just anyone.
Now...Keep my name out of your mouth, and may it taste like shit on your tongue. With all the crap I know about your asses you dont want me to lower myself to your standards and start spittin the shit. At least I would tell the truth.

And now to the friends and the awesome AFFers I havent met, You Rock. Anything you need, I'll do my best to get it for you. I'm all over it. Keep doin watchya do,its all good by me. None of my earlier statements were in any way directed toward you, and you should know that. My friends know who they are. Muahhhhhhhhhhhhhh Hugs and Kisses Sexies

rm_ToneMan5000 43M
57 posts
3/20/2006 1:15 am


Now that's what I call, a strong, confident, self assured, SEXY woman.

cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/20/2006 2:51 am:
ty sooo much

alaskaredhead 63F

3/20/2006 1:32 am

Cherry, you are the bomb and no one can take that away. Not only are you my bestest friend you are my sister. You, are real and I like that, I can trust you with my life and all the other jealous asses out there can shove it where the sun don't shine.......and yes, karma is a wonderful thing........keep doing your thang girl.....but dont forget to share a lil with your big sister..hehehe Love ya

cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/20/2006 2:51 am:
I love you sis, and its always gonna be that way. Any one fuckin with my Red is gonna get the Cherrybomb, lol. We have so much fun together, we are an excellent example of friendship. muahhhhhhhhhhh hugssssssss
p.s. u already know whats mine is yours lmao

goodlkgwithpad 55M

3/20/2006 1:50 am

cherry hon...
daymn...all id have to do is change the gender-specific stuff and thats my blog...im right there with ya hon...i definitely feel your pain....best way to get back at everyone? easy....keep happy and enjoy life...enjoy it more than they do....dont let them affect what you do and who you are...


cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/20/2006 2:48 am:
ty bill, i do know how u feel, it is different in many ways, but similar in the others. as long as we remember who our friends are, we will be ok.

semperfi2u 47M
129 posts
3/20/2006 3:39 am

"Hide our ignorance as we will, an evening of wine soon reveals it." Heraclitus

AdultFriendFinder is like a tasty wine... choose your drinking buddies carefully!

cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/21/2006 11:54 pm:
Ahhhhhhhh, yes....i think I shall quit meeting groups of pretend friends.

nogames343 47M  
41 posts
3/20/2006 8:09 am

Hello Cherrybomb. Maybe you should ditch that small town and come to my small town, Kodiak. I'd love to get to know you. Maybe we could meet in Anchorage some time and discuss the nature of the universe. Look for the e-mail I sent you.

cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/21/2006 11:55 pm:
Now that is a thought, things that make ya go hmmm

quirky1234 54F

3/20/2006 9:43 am

cool,, saves me some words lol.... good to see you both saturday to compare notes and party a little... welcome to the shitless bunker lol.... and a little side note to those that think they OWN the ak chatroom... guess again.. do not underestimate the power of women to overcome differences in the name of peace... we are sick and tired.. of the drama, the noise, and desire to not get along.. something about strong independant women.. NO ONE OWNS US... the laughs about it are ours... time for the drama to fade away and it to be fun again... to you cherry you go..keep on.. and red too .. kisses and hugs.... (wont this killem) lmaooooooooo


cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/20/2006 12:30 pm:
Ditto, Ditto, Ditto and Ditto girl. I have to laugh about all this. I have done nothing to anyone, you know I love everybody, well most anyway. It all started good, til people stuck their noses where they didnt belong. I actually shed tears over the one situation, but thats what i get for caring. I wont let them change me, I still care.....but not on the same level. You know me and what i'm sayin. Hugs and kisses girl

dino6960 53M  
9 posts
3/20/2006 9:54 am

you go girlfriend!!!!!!!friends are hard to come buy good ones anyways!!! an there the ones you can trust .sorry for your losses nevere new that but in time everthing heals...just dont change who you are at least the cherry i chat w/ in the ak room ...your so much fun love yah dino

cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/21/2006 11:47 pm:
TY Hun, I luv chattin with ya. I'll never forget how we met....my drunken titty show in the room, lmaooooooooooooooooooooo was fun tho...muahhhhhhhhhhhhh

rm_Big9Txcock 44M

3/20/2006 10:08 am

Well if that don't explain itself and they don't know who they are, then they must be dumber than a box of rocks. People need to Mind Their House before coming into someone else's and trying to say it is jacked up. The rumors are to be expected from small minded insecure people and thaey are the ones that lose in the long run.
Well i hope I am one of them friends I tell ya. HAHAHAHA. Cherry Babe, you are one of the sweetest and ost honest people I havve net here and I am glad that I know ya, wish i could come kick some @$$ for ya, but I know you can handle it if you need to with those long legs. Well i guess it is time to stop ranting for me. Great Post Babe.

cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/20/2006 10:21 am:
Ty Babe, you know i'm lovin ya, you are one of the finest men i've met here. I will hate the day i lose contact with you, I hope to keep you as a friend 4ever, muahhhhhhhhhhh.

MONA_14 31F

3/20/2006 11:51 am

you are invited to be our Friends

frbnkslady 49F
6183 posts
3/21/2006 12:09 am

I just say what goes around comes around.. and most stand in the way of the train... I don't know who started the shit.. I don't care.. it did NOT involve me... site is titled ADULT for some odd reason... most ought to apply that... T


cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/21/2006 11:51 pm:
Yanno what? I do care, thats the fucked up part, I should quit even thinkin I have friends on this site, then I wouldnt worry about it. Meet someone, ask them if they're from AdultFriendFinder....if they say yes, ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun like hell. lol

100prcntnocnt 50F

3/21/2006 2:27 am

It seems there have been some working behind the scenes and doing a little overtime to stir things. I remember when everyone got along and when chat was FUN. Now it seems it's filled with so much drama and BS that it isn't so much fun any more. The one thing I really wish is for people not to buy in so much to the drama and definitely not to add to it. Is it really that hard for people to be themselves online as well as off? This used to be a fairly tight-knit group of friends until recently. It really bugs me because it takes the fun out of it when there are so many problems and it makes it hard to see people who used to get along not getting along any more.

cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/21/2006 3:28 am:
Tis ok, is the stupid fucks who listen to it i'm pissed at, cant stand for anything, cant have a back bone, spend their life with their noses up someone elses ass. The folks involved are definitely spineless and weak.

frbnkslady 49F
6183 posts
3/21/2006 8:56 am

Is why over half of us no longer stay in the AK room...I don't care who has fucked who... if you are not also invited to that bed.. its NONE of your damn business.. don't care who gets more then someone else... Used to be able to have a fooking riot in our room.. no longer....Is why I am hardly in there anymore..and when you do go in.. its Drama 101. Fook that... no fun anymore... And I am sorry you are so pissed off at me you cannot tell me why...T


cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/21/2006 11:46 pm:
Dang girl, I'm not pissed at you. I wasnt aware you did anything to hurt me. I'm getting to the bottom of alot of it. I will always be here, sooooooooo I hope people just learn to accept that, and if I hurt anyone, inadvertantly...i'm very sorry. I wish I knew why so many people are mad at me.

20fun4ever 43M

3/21/2006 4:45 pm

Very very well versed wabbit...i agree wholeheartedly with your statements hun...You hit the nail square on the head.

polarcpl2share 49M/45F

3/22/2006 10:51 am

I'd have to agree with everyone here. Who the hell cares who fucks who. I DON'T. AND we all use to have a riot in the room , where did that go. Lastnigt(3-21-06) was the exception. We all had fun and there was no mincing of words. I've tried to say hi to you. If you have me on iggy that's fine..everyone has their own opinions.As for what you do in your life..that's yours to live with,not mine.I have my own life to live. Always keep your true friends close to you, they'll never do you wrong, but always be true to them and they'll be true back. Everyone has their ups and downs. Some things are said and taken the wrong way...some look past, some ignore...it can be a good thing...and most get over being pissed off about something said or done and move on to try to make life better. It's been an unfortunate and a sad site to see that one person can tear the whole group of friends apart. Now that many are seeing those true colors, maybe it can be back to the way it was, maybe even better and stronger.Everyone has differences and they can get past those and leave the shit behind.Hope you find love,peace and friendship in your journey. F

cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/22/2006 7:13 pm:
Hey Girl,
Things seem to have gotten a bit out of hand. I am just now finding out how affected others were by some of that persons actions, I thought it was just me. I guess I havent been as attentive to you because I felt you were iggying me afer the mayhem/big9 conversation that day. I just love a man with masterful ways, so I got a bit defensive. I think the room has shaped up quite a bit already. What a damper one person can put on things! I just never realized it. I do keep my friends close to me, thats the reason for the friends disclaimer at the end. I will now try to get back to the old, not so hurt me. and TY.......

polarcpl2share 49M/45F

3/22/2006 10:53 am

and by the way, you don't have to change who you are. as long as you love you for you..then you're great...if others don't like you..oh well..fuck em...or NOT. lol..F

frbnkslady 49F
6183 posts
3/22/2006 11:42 pm

I am not mad at you... and I am in no way upsett about the big9.. no matter what his ego tells him... he had me laughing.. I like cocky little fookers too.. but to be pissy.. go right ahead..lmao more power to you dude.. and he is in NO WAY the reason I left the chat room.. sorry man.. T


LoveToLixxxxxxx 56M

3/28/2006 11:08 pm

Glad I stay out of shit..laffs!!!

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© LoveToLixxxxxxx 2006



cherrybomb_1963 replies on 3/31/2006 11:32 pm:
lmao, you know we're cool, besides, if we werent, you'd like the spankins too much

teambear2 58M

3/30/2006 11:55 pm

Totaly, agree with ya,,you always have a friend here...Baby don't ya lose my number..cause its not everywhere...Tony

bushmaster321 52M  
25 posts
4/30/2006 12:25 am

well i wasnt there and dont know what happened but ya know how i feel about ya` cherry

cherrybomb_1963 replies on 5/19/2006 11:56 pm:
one thing I can say......you were always real with me

toddyroddy4u 53M/53F
1 post
5/31/2006 6:25 pm


cherrybomb_1963 54F

5/31/2006 7:00 pm

ty hun.....i totally agree with u.....some folks need to fuck with others to make themselves feel important.......childish losers....
Keep doin what ya do, cuz u rock

mrmrs_rainsong 46M/47F

6/25/2006 3:21 pm


You are a total sweetheart... must have them very jealous! Keep being you! I have missed seeing you around in the chat room



cherrybomb_1963 54F

6/26/2006 11:04 am

muahhhhhhhhhh babe, tyvm....I have been coming back a bit, I just dont know that I can enjoy it like I used to knowing folks are so hateful. I miss you too...hugssssssssssssssss

3 posts
7/16/2006 11:11 pm

Cherry nice talkin to you earlier. Shitty thing about small town, if ya look like you're havin fun, people all want to talk about you cuz their lives are pathetic. It doesn't matter who or what you do, they'll all talk about you till the next somethin to talk about comes along. been there.. fuck that....

Be yourself and F everyone who thinks they have the right to talk about it.

Cheers Cherry

cherrybomb_1963 54F

7/17/2006 1:38 am

tyvm hun, i also enjoyed chatting with you earlier. Most of the problems I find with people is their jealousy....if they walked a tenth of a mile in my shoes, they'd wanna run home to mama. I just dont have time for the mess.
i'm glad i met ya, yer alot of fun

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