The better part of Valor  

chemistbb3 62M  
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4/16/2005 4:11 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The better part of Valor


Discretion that is...

Why do folks here want a discreet relationship?

I can understand their need. It is not always a need to keep the knowledge from a spouse or significant other. Sometimes it is about where they live. Maybe they don't want their neighbors know about their choice in lifestyles. Perhaps they don't want their kids to know. Then there are co-workers. I know of a case where the fact that someone was involved in a swinging lifestyle cause them to lose their job. This was even though they did not involve anyone from their work or did anything that was related to their lifestyle on the job. Yes, I am interested in an open relationship. I like to hold hands and I am not afraid to show everyone who I am with. But, I do realize that not everyone has the same options and desires I do. They may not be comfortable with an open display of attachment (which would include that they are even just eating dinner with someone). Everyone has different ways, ideas and desires. If one of them is to be discreet in their relationship, I will do my best to help them with this.

Apolybear 55M

4/17/2005 9:21 am

Well said Chem3. Discreet doesn't always mean someone's cheating...


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