The taboo's of anal sex  

cheekytightfun 33F
38 posts
5/28/2006 7:01 am

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6/22/2006 5:17 am

The taboo's of anal sex

As I sit around and wonder how dull the usual bedroom sex gets, it occured to me the other day that Ive never tried anal sex! This surprised me 'cause Ive always been turned on at the thought of it, and the site of a gaping asshole really excites me!

Anal seems to be one of those taboo subjects: you either do it or is totally forbidden. I find the thought of anal so thrilling: a guy licking and fingering my ass then adding some slippery lube and then finally opening me up, just feels so naughty!

Ive thought about buying myself some but plugs and anal toys, but then I think "No: lets get a guy to violate my hole first!" One of my greatest fantasies is to have a guy bend me over the bonnet of his car in woods or somewhere outdoors, and then fuck me senseless! A car, lube, my ass and the outdoors: perfect setting for a good fuck!

Anyway, my point is, does anyone else have the same thoughts as me? Post me and let me know!
(Maybe give me some tips too!)

mistasmacyoass 48M
2 posts
5/29/2006 7:11 am

First of all it's great to know women also have such passionate thoughts about anal sex! Especially a woman who has never tried anal sex. From my experience women have been reluctant to try anal sex but grew to like or even love being butt fucked. Deep down I believe lots of women would like to try anal sex but don't because it's been considered taboo. Thinking that the guy will believe she is a dirty slut if she allows him to fuck her ass. Ladys please stop thinking of people judging you for your sexual preferences. Last but not least, "Stop acting like you are only having anal sex to please your man!" If you enjoy it, admit to it and just have fun.

pussygalore555 42F

5/30/2006 2:40 pm

Well hun i was like you couple of years back now......... wanted to try it but wasn't sure. My partner at the time said lets try it, will take it real slow. Well cut the story short i did it and havent looked back... love anal Go for it if you dont like it you dont have to do it again.

Have fun hun

pussyg xx

pussylicker655 48M

6/2/2006 2:37 pm

i totally agree with you ive never tried anal sex either but i would realy like even let a woman fuck my ass if she was into that just to see what its like.
i like what you wrote about where and how you would like this to happen so if your interested id love to come help you do it for real,so what do you say?

rm_photomutant 57M
37 posts
6/4/2006 12:49 am

Nice to know you're human, and we all have a 'secret' desire I guess the trick is do you act on it or not???
For myself anal sex was I thought the ultimate taboo - now I'm a bit older I've found that it's not a taboo for a lot of people and as an experience it's awesome (love it to bits)
So I'd say that if this is a road you'd like to travel you should grease up and use your fingers or a small toy to get your body used to the idea (it's going to be tight at first) then when you're ready and with the right fella let go and have some serious fun!!!


rm_Sheepish666 31M

6/6/2006 3:36 pm

The taboo definately contributes to my interest in anal
That and the sensation, for both me and her. Ive fingered, been fingered but never had full anal. One day im sure.

Looking forward to your next blog entry to find out whether this fantasy ever came true for you..

i posted a comment in your previous entry too

rm_dickmcelvis 45M
9 posts
6/6/2006 3:42 pm

I've done this with a few girls, a couple for the first time, and never had a bad experience. One girl I knew prefered it to anything else, one didn't mind it but loved my reaction so we did it all the time. When a girl's new to it it forces you to go so slowly and that in itself is exciting. Sex is so often a frantic, fast activity and a bit of gentle anal can slow things right down - mmm!

It also makes a man very aware of what he's doing to a woman - he doesn't want to hurt her and end up naked in the street.

Keep it greased, take it slow and don't be scared to say stop when you've had enough. If you can ever get enough!

SirMounts 103M

6/6/2006 4:43 pm

Fortunately, ever more women are feeling the same way... you do. *winking*
Welcome to blogging, cheekytightfun. *smiling*

rm_Ratormo 42M
26 posts
6/7/2006 6:06 am


can you pls give me the address of a VCD/video shop in aberdeen that has porno VCDs. preferably near the robert Gordon university


rm_Sheepish666 31M

6/7/2006 3:52 pm

There are two adult shops (ones part of a costume shop) on George street I think. Also one on Bridge Street down from Angels although I heard it was due to be shut down (same street as Liquid if your unsure). No idea if theyre any good or if they stock what you want, never needed to visit one myself

All my vcd's come off the net, I can help you if you're in desperate need
I wonder if theres such a thing as a porn club... along the lines of a book club...

rm_Ratormo 42M
26 posts
6/10/2006 10:11 am

thanks sheepish666

can we meet up, U see, i will be attending a conference in the Robert Gordon university on the 15 of July and I hope to make some purchases.i will buy you a drink

ratormo add

BrilliantAndPure 50M
20 posts
6/15/2006 9:23 am


Analsex is much more than a taboo subject -- my point is, it is not less than a thrilling taboo sensation...

And I wonder if you might be interested in BrilliantAndPure's AnalSexClass.

As I will stay in Aberdeen with my little flying anal circus for two or three days, we could meet and work through lesson 1 ('licking'), lesson 2 ('fucking') and lesson 3 ('exorbitant outdoor fun at ancient places').

I would love to give you some tips, teach you some tricks and **** you senseless.


rockstar263 42M
3 posts
6/15/2006 3:35 pm

Hi babe, you really should get in touch with me. You look very hot in your pic and believe me, if you want some fantastic action on a car bonnet then we should get it on!! Your description of what you want made me hot just thinking of it, I think we can make each other very happy. Hope to hear from you soon. x x

demonicsexkitten 42F
10688 posts
6/18/2006 12:28 pm

The guy i had first "intimate" relations with always fantasized about anal. i'd never considered it before him. A couple times i rubbed suggestively against him to let him know i was ok to try it if he wanted. Never did. My 2nd lover... was really into it. I think we'd been together a while before i remembered my former curiosity (the thought grew on me). In my experience... i do NOT like being licked back there... ewww. being fingered... just feels wierd. But penetration... i love that. Gets rather addictive. Just use lots of lube, and go slowly. For me it always almost hurt just going in, but felt great after that. Just remember to keep relaxed, and don't hurry. Fast/hard doesn't work lol. But experimenting is always fun. Gives stuff to laugh about later.

For my part: I never heard of it being "taboo" till years after the fact lol. My problem with the "taboo" thing is that I feel, as long as it's consenting and nobody is hurt, that there are no "taboos". Well: within the restriction of marriage. All my thoughts and fantasies of sex revolve around that.

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