not sure what to make of this  

cheekygal10002 37F
8 posts
3/3/2006 2:56 am

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3/18/2006 5:03 am

not sure what to make of this


Have only been checking out this online dating thing for a few days and am not to sure what to make of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thought it would be interesting to check it out and if I happened to come across a couple of great guys in the meen time that would be fun.

I would be interested to hear of other peoples experiences with this type of thing.

sassybelle21 34F  
13313 posts
3/3/2006 3:35 am

There will be good and bad. The good, you might find the person who's your type especially you are lady. Guys will be flocking to your doorstep as in mailbox since you got a photo up. One more good thing on here through blogs, you can make a lot of friends even if you aren't having sex with any of them.

Coming to the bad, most people simply don't look past your photo and send you redundant one-liners or indecent/disrespectful email. Also you might have people who are just playing you on here and not really want to meet.

I'll give a rest at that. Just be careful and good luck Happy blogging too.


rm_MustangD6644 53M
1031 posts
3/4/2006 1:56 am

Hi cheekygal10002; and Welcome to Blogland. Its great to see a Victorian lady starting up a blog.
Sassy has given you an important heads up, and I think that you may already be aware of what happened to Bendigo Girl, so beware of the Knuckledraggers. Read her blog and take note of the warning signs, as the knuckledraggers are everywhere and use every trick in the book and then some to get at you.
One way to hold them back maybe to demand that if they want to date you then they have to show their paws at the door by posting a dating proposal to you in your blog. This way the "Nice People" of Blogland can suss them out and rank them.
Round two could involve a Q and A session at a set time in the Central Vic Fun Group Chat Room or failing that in the Love Doctors chat room as most of the regulars in there have no love for knuckledraggers.
Conduct initial correspondence and chats here on AdultFriendFinder where you can call upon others to get a feel for your suitors.
Set up a account so the if you encounter a problem with a cyber stalker, then you can ditch the account to ensure your safety. Trust me it will be well worth it as it has happened to several women I know.

Read the Dating Safety Tips and use them, they are there for a reason.

Always meet a suitor in public and be wary of drink spiking possibilities.
Ensure you have a "Safety Buddy" who knows where you are going out to and with whom and for how long. Call your buddy upon your safe return home so they can stand down.
I am not trying to scare you, just trying to warn you about the hazards as I don't want to see the knuckledraggers pick you off quickly like they did Bendigo Girl.

Mustang

Failsafe measure; Shyvixen is often to be found in the Love Doctors chat room at all sorts of hours and I trust her. I also trust imsohorny and she will help out in any way she can.


cheekygal10002 37F

3/9/2006 7:31 pm

Thanks mustang, i read about what happened to bendigo girl in her blogg, that's some pretty scary and dodgey stuff.


drew_tkd 37M

3/10/2006 8:21 pm

Hey there, I have been a member on this site for just over a month now. I have had yet to actually find a genuine person till cheekygal repsonded. I had been getting diverted by other girls to other sites that had their "contact details" if you joined their site. i found it was some scam to rip off your credit card. Lucky i caught it earlier and put a stop it. It was a 30 dollar lesson on my part, but as you can see it can be bad for guys as well. maybe not so bad as girls. Having read mustangs blog about bendigo girl, that gets me really angry and makes it really hard for normal guys to actually appear sincere or genuine. I have noticed it is probably just as hard making conatct with a woman here as it is in the real world. You try and be sincere and upfront and you appear too nice. You try and do the whole dirty talk thing and they think you are a sleaze. sometimes a guy just can't win. Anyway i hope that cheekygal is what she appears to. And would be more than happy to visit any place to meet her for a drink shes wants to choose. I feel its better and safer for the woman to choose the place to meet initally and set up their own circumstances, somewhere familiar or where you may be known, even havea friend in the background to help you out. i know i can take care of myself. Just make sure you take care of yourself.

Drew


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