Family pain and backstabbing.  

celestialdevel 36F
3 posts
8/13/2006 8:37 pm
Family pain and backstabbing.

I have a pain in my heart that my blood caused. With all that I have been through this last year, all of the pain and loss, the one sibling I have done everything in the world for turns on me yet again. The few times I have needed him on my side he has turned on me and made me the bad/wrong one.

My husband treated me like shit (used me and then me twice, as well as putting a gun to his head in front of me, threatening to pull the trigger) during our short marriage. My brother says that I should be with my husband still because we are still married. We are only still married because I can not yet afford the divorce. When my mother tried to defend me and tell him that David treated me like an angel, that we are happy, my brother did something I never thought he was capable of doing. He told my mother straight out that I am only happy with David unto the next guy comes along.

He is defending the man who me, who hurt me so bad and then to make it worse he basically calls me a whore. I have always defended him to everyone. I have been on his side the best I could no matter what he chose to do.....with few exceptions. Now he is backing the man who caused me so much pain as well calling me a whore. I am 24 and I can still count my sexual partners on 2 hands. I do not know of any whores that can say that.

rm_mainevern 52M
10197 posts
8/13/2006 9:05 pm

Sounds to me like you're listening to entirely the wrong person. Being a relative doesn't mean they're not going to be a complete doofus too.

How would you handle someone who wasn't a relative that said this kind of crap to you?

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