Don't Call Us We'll Call You  

ccninja 43M
17 posts
4/20/2005 1:53 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Don't Call Us We'll Call You

Just a curious question. I've read that most of the women here don't have time to run searches due to all the emails they recieve. I also hear complaints about most of these emails being from men that they have nothing in common with.

If this is true, why don't women search for men themselves and ignore all emails from men unless it's a reply?

This is not another rant about guys having to do all the work. I was just curious about how women use this system. So ladies, which to you prefer searching or checking emails and why?

gentlebear7855 62M
10 posts
4/20/2005 3:54 pm

i wish more women would write first

smooth_and_wet 51M/41F

4/20/2005 4:27 pm

Well, it seems that you've probably ran into females that focus too much on the emails and don't realize that they have to dig in order to find what they are after. I personally, together with my hubby, look into the searches and browses to make sure we aren't missing anyone who has the same interest or not.

So, don't think that ALL females (males) just wait by the computer and wait for the "you've got mail" signal.

wyvernrose 39F  
3962 posts
4/20/2005 6:18 pm

I search for what I am looking for in particular, and even if it isn't quite it might still say hi on occasion.....I do read the emails, but majority of those unsolicited are rubbish...


patsam69 52M/52F

4/20/2005 6:30 pm

personally, I do and answer e mails.

missy97330 48F

4/30/2005 1:34 am

Yes, for awhile I simply went by my emails only, only because I am polite and respond to 99% of them to say hi. That takes time. The few guys I did make the first step tp write to always wrote me back (of course, and then they said, "No one ever writes me!").

Also, I meet a lot of guys in chat. Yes, I am also talking about who I end up meeting in person as well.

Note to the wise: A face picture is very helpful! You don't even have to be good looking or anything, we just want to see a face.

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