oh thank goodness!  

catastrophegirl 42F
975 posts
6/17/2006 3:00 am
oh thank goodness!


you may or may not be following along, but for the past few months i have been casually dating someone. he's a very nice guy. VERY nice. i like him, but i don't think i could ever love him. but his last relationship lasted 13 years and left him with a lot of issues. i've been helping him get over them. i had kind of been wanting to end it since he's been developing feelings for me and i haven't been able to reciprocate. (which we have discussed and he said he was fine with that)

tonight i got this as part of an email from him:

"Now, there is something that I need to let you know.
The plans I had tonight were with someone I went out
with last week. I had started to develop an interest
in her, but I wasn't certain if she had the same type
of interest in me. Tonight, we went out again, and it
is clear that we both have a desire to be more than
friends. I've told her that I'm seeing someone, and I
felt that I should tell you about her."



oh yay! sometimes it's nice to be the transitional one. i tole him that i am very happy for him and that i think it's wonderful that he has found someone who is more interested in an actual relationship. i really didn't want to put him in a position to where he might lose all the hard work he's done the last few months on gaining self confidence. this is just perfect.

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