reason for swinging?  

carriebu 46M/41F
308 posts
3/31/2006 7:38 am

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5/5/2007 7:32 am

reason for swinging?

There are many reasons for swinging. Are you into this for?
long term relationship.
Fulfill fantasies.
Social aspect.
Save a relationship.

shezmu 59M
6 posts
3/31/2006 6:13 pm

swinging for me is about the people you meet. whether they be on-line friends or those you meet in public. hedonism is still alive, well, and thriving. although one must obey the laws of safety before jumping into anything or anyoneone for that matter. its the thrill of exploring a new mind that has had different experiences from your own. and you should come away from the experience not just sexually satisfied but also a bit wiser. everyone reacts differently to past, present and hopefully, future experiences.

rm_WedInVA 49M/43F
16 posts
3/31/2006 7:41 pm

The Lifestyle is NOT for people trying to save a relationship! Anybody trying to save a relationship here is barking up the WRONG tree. It's for people with GREAT relationships.

rm_dansdream2 75M/71F
2 posts
3/31/2006 10:28 pm

I see i am not alone.

waywardboy4u 62M
154 posts
4/4/2006 7:11 am

The life style is for exploration ,fulfillment of your fantasys and " Your Partners" And of course and don't let anyone tell you differant ... For Sex And Lots of it.
These are two of the most open and friendly people on this site Great luck in Kentucky

lifeisablast333 55M

4/4/2006 9:32 pm

we swing for a lot of reasons....but mostly, it is just freakin fun......the redneck

AWaterSide 33M  
299 posts
4/12/2006 6:50 pm

Holy crap...I was one of FIVE people to vote for "Social aspect"...I feel stupid now.

It's true though...I'm very very shy and that's why I swing, it opens me up. Surprised to hear that from a single guy?


2GirlsGoodBenBad 37F/34F

4/16/2006 7:32 pm

As friends I shared with my girlfriend that I "swung" every now and then. For me it was primarily exploring my own sexuality. Now that we are in a relationship we have talked about wanting to explore our sexual fantasies together - and I reminded her of swinging and we went from there and have been enjoying ourselves since.

fmisvme 47M/37F

5/30/2006 2:40 pm

It's good clean fun!!!!

Rock Chalk Jayhawk!

Versaut1985 32M
47 posts
6/4/2006 5:41 am

Can i see more from you !!

AtticusHenry9 43M/46F

6/15/2006 12:41 pm

definately we like the sexual side of swinging! plus, the sex we have the next week or two is always intensely fun and erotic.
we watch each other with others and we remember how hot we are to each other, too! does that make sense to you all?
and now, that i'm pregnant(we don't swing when i'm pregnant, this is our second lil' one on the way!!): we have a whole new set of ways to play--it's like we're a different couple when we're playing!!!
jocie and henry

rm_1UP4PLAY 53M
13 posts
6/20/2006 5:52 pm

Its just fun and erotic exploration with others. This should be done with maturity and respect of others boundaries. this is a way to spice up a relationship and enhance it.

kinkypleaser2 67M
2 posts
7/5/2006 5:24 am

It definately has to be for the sex. It allows you to see, and appreciate your mate in an entirely different light. Seeing how they move and respond during sexual enjoyment can be an awesome and wonderful site. Something you cannot see and truely appreciate when you are actively participating with them.

niceNHcouple 44M/46F

8/7/2006 5:51 pm

We voted Social Aspect cause that was the main thrust. We also did it for exploration and fun. We enjoy the lifestyle and have made great friends thru it.

Irene and Moe

letsgetbusy828 47M
1 post
10/3/2006 1:54 am

very sexy,i love like to meet or just chat. 807

rm_readyeddie70 47M
7 posts
12/21/2006 7:52 pm

Carrie, I'm in Paducah area but you look too sexy. Maybe we could chat a little and arrange a meeting or something. Love to get a hold of some of your thoughts in person

rm_Flaming4u 44M
1 post
1/7/2007 6:59 pm

I agree, Its all about fantasy fun and excitement to explore new things and build on a sexual relationship

hot2trot696969 52M/53F
314 posts
2/17/2007 4:29 pm

We had discussed this for a long time, did a lot of role playing and then sorta fell into it with some close friends one evening and have never looked back. In fact the couple that we started with are now in our group and extremely close friends. We took a long time to get the five couples that we now have and each one counts as a close friend. (No pun intended) The females shop together, the guys shoot pool and go out for a beer now and then. The gals have tea about twice a month and its as if we had know them for years.

And the bisexual angle? Only regret that I waited so long. I love cock, don't get me wrong, but do I ever love to play with the gals. The very best of both worlds.

HavingFunAgain05 55M/55F  
1 post
3/7/2007 8:14 pm

In order for the sex or the fulfillment of fantasies you need the love and trust of your mate, to try and save a relationship means that trust is most likely gone already therefore this site is a waste of every bodies time.

nova811 69M/64F
1 post
3/20/2007 5:27 am

best way too meet friends and have fun at the same time.we just love it lets all have a good time,we only live once

WeJoExperience 59M/39F
5 posts
4/11/2007 7:57 pm

Relationships and the sex... If you leave out the relationships the sex is heated, but not as satisifying...wejoexperience

medicsex 52M

5/4/2007 1:35 pm

i would love to explore that life style but i am a single male it is hard to find any one that would let me join in

rm_dananlinda13 57M/58F
109 posts
3/19/2008 5:54 am

First four reasons. Sex is so much more satisfying when the other elements are there.

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