carriebu 46M/41F
308 posts
4/12/2005 9:22 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


We would like to start out by thanking the members that are honest and real. By "real" we mean true to themselves and honest with others about it. Now onto the horror story as we would like to call it. Saturday alot of you saw us on cam with another couple playing cards and seemily having a good time. When it came to the early hours of the morning things started to really get going and we thought, that everything was on the up and up. We were so wrong! The other couple, or so they would like all of us to believe, started screaming and threatening each other. We don't want nor need to be a part of any drama and if you can't get your shit straight then you need to be re-evaluating your relationship first and foremost. We are not a quick fix for anyone and implore folks to be respectful of our wishes. If you're into hitting you're significant other please stay away from us! We have spent many hours on cam here on AdultFriendFinder and hope that most people understand that we are decent honest folks with absolutely nothing to hide. We're enclosing the reply to an e-mail that we sent the couple asking what exactly happened and not berating them. It seems that the gentleman in the couple is using us as a scape goat for his behavior. We will not go into the many things wrong with this couple nor will we even address the fact that they were deceptive on their profile. Enough with the crazies out there! Leave us alone; only genuine and decent people will be allowed into our circle of friends! Sorry if it makes it more difficult for others to meet and get to know us but we need to protect ourselves.
Thanks Michael and Carrie
Us>hey! We want both of you two to know we don't hold any grudges and still aren't quite sure what happened the other nite. Hope everything is good for you both and if you can work everything out let us know.
Them> hey, so were not quite sure what happened. But we both do think that we were drugged. She left sober, took us three hours to get home. She thinks we pulled over and stopped and slept, she felt so fucked up she had to pull over and I had to drive, I dont remember driving. You guys are pretty shady people so do us a favor dont contact us ive already blocked you from our email, u see us on web cam watch i dont give a fuck. JUst dont talk to us, u guys are like people you read about in crazy books,like stories that happened in waco. With that being said enjoy your life and keep on taking Dr.Phills Advice.
They seem to exclude the fact that they brought their own drinks and mixed them themselves! I would venture to say if you weigh 130#'s you shouldn't drink a fifth of vodka.

2 posts
4/12/2005 11:16 am

Sounds like you found some real losers. Keep up the great cam.

rm_grappers15 51M/48F

4/12/2005 12:49 pm

Wow! I saw you guys having a good time that night but the camera went out and I went to bed. Don't know if you ever got back on cam. You have to be careful who you get involved with out there. What is their handle? Now those crazy people know where you live! Sorry it went bad for you guys. Good luck on the next ones!!

rm_couplebibbw 49M/44F
4 posts
4/12/2005 7:15 pm

it seems you guys had two drunk losers sorry to hear we are honored to be in your network we love watching you guys take care

Denayr 55M
1 post
4/12/2005 7:41 pm

Wow, thats the craziest thing. I watch you guys all the time. I watched the whole thing. The camera went out for awhile, but you were back on when you were swapping partners. Everything looked good, but the sound was off. Shortly after you all were off screen for maybe 10-15min and then the other guy was on screen fully dressed and she came and sat down and started putting her cloths on. She looked like she was having a difficult time getting dress. You could tell she was pretty drunk, so I dont understand when he said she left sober. Thats too bad, I hope you keep trying. I know there are some good couples out there.

mtbi4u2 56M

4/12/2005 7:43 pm

Micheal and Carrie... You guys are way too classy to get "stuck" with those losers! Thank you for the pleasure you give us!
Folks, I wasn't what they were looking for but they ALLOWED me to become part of their network. I thank them for that! Diffenitely my gain! I have talked to they by mail and enjoy their the chat. If there are people out there that don't consider themselves "special", when they meet them, well, just leave these sexy, fun loving people alone! Nuff said....David

nycareadude 46M

4/12/2005 8:19 pm

No offense, but what kind of people do you really expect to meet on a sex website? All your're going to meet are people who have deficiencies in their lives that they are trying to fill through instant sexual gratification. (Hey I think I"m describing myself...lol) But seriously, you'll learn soon that fucking strangers or fucking your wife on line might be fun while its happening, but in the long term it offers no rewards and leads you to dark places..

rm_maverickspro 53M
1 post
4/12/2005 8:21 pm

you two are a great couple. i have quietly watched you all for a few days now, dont let idiots ruin what you all have. i just sit and listen to you guys talk. really interesting. maybe sometime i can be invited into your network. take care and keep on lovin each other the way you do.

rm_ltsgetnwty 48M/45F
17 posts
4/12/2005 9:46 pm

Talk about multiple personality disorders. Sorry to hear that you ran into this. Luckily, we have only had good experiences. We love your cam and hope you have better luck.


4/13/2005 4:12 am

Michael and Carrie -- Are two of the most honest and down to earth people on AdultFriendFinder, as anyone who is a member of your viewing audience already knows.When viewers are watching you and see your shows they can't help realize that you two have something special. Perfection is something that is hard to find and is seldom achieved --nobody is perfect but judging from your experience on Sat night you know that already. Still in your honest mannor you told them the facts and if they could get it together to contact you . A word of Advice - Don't bother those two loosers don't deserve a second chance.I read their reply -- to say they have issues is an understatement. Just keep on keepin on and be yourselves -- we all love you. Your friend and fan Stephen - savenger2

rm_ionized1 55M
5 posts
4/13/2005 8:40 pm

wow....sorry to hear of your bad night. I hope things go better with your next couple.

rm_janojoe 55M
1 post
4/14/2005 12:59 am

Michael and Carrie -- I am extremely impressed with your genuine profile. It is obvious that you are truly interested in wholesome couples sex, and you are mainly committed to each other. I wish my sexual relationship was as healthy as yours. You are above reproach in dealing with this other couple. It is very unfortunate that you have had to deal with them. I watched your webcam on that night (as I have many others). It appears as though the wife was "nervous" about the sexual encounter, so she tried to "numb" herself with alcohol. It is a shame that this couple wants to blame you for their inability to have an open sexual relationship. I am disappointed for you that you were not able to have a positive connection with this couple. They certainly need to get some of their own issues corrected before they swing again.

4 posts
4/14/2005 7:23 pm

Hey Michael and Carrie we've met you and love ya both ! We only wish we could have been there instead of them our fault ! You two are awesome and we consider you good friends. See ya soon

able202 68M
2719 posts
4/15/2005 7:39 pm

Wow sounds like you met the real nightmare. Pity, thate are so many out just to enjoy life and meet people and a pair like that can make us all sit back and wonder everytime we get a message or a wink. Hope you can put them behind you soon and forget the incident and get back to fun..


TakesTeatsStood 51M
505 posts
4/16/2005 10:12 pm

Hey guys - welcome back, I realize you have been on again for a while but I guess I have missed you until tonight.

Sorry about your bad experience but I am sure your good ones will outweigh the bad in time

wannafuckmygirl 53M/45F

4/19/2005 9:38 pm

Hi guys,we are not in your network(though we would love to be!)but we are sorry to hear about your bad experience.People like that should not be in the swinging lifestyle.It takes a couple who are unconditionaly devoted to each other,totaly trusting,able to seperate love from sex,and must have a secure relationship without jealousy.Im proud to say my husband and I have just that type of relationship.We are more in love now than ever.I must respond however on the comment posted by nycareadude.Crudely stated...he is a fool! We have met our share of fools like him on this site,but we have also met tons of great people and had lots of great sexual encounters as well.Im sure you two are very secure in your relationship.And your future encounters,good AND bad,will only bring you closer. Good luck next time....T&R

rm_RavenBeauty5 57M/61F
64 posts
4/20/2005 8:22 am

We feel and think the same way when it comes to drama of anyone in our lifes when we live an open relationship. We are secure in our love and our relationship, so we want the same. We avoid married people unless they come together as a couple. WE aren't interested in being the band-aid or the catalyst of a fight. We definitely want to get to know people before we meet them. We are upfront about who we are and have met some great people that have become friends. On the other end of the spectrum we have people coming up and telling me they want to #*%@ my wife. We just search for a happy medium and get to know people first. Even then it is no guarantee of no drama, so just continue to be safe.

rm_N2lotsru 58M
7 posts
4/22/2005 5:04 am

I've been interested in a 3some with a couple for some time and this event turns me off to the idea.....really scary is what I think it is.

1 post
4/23/2005 12:33 am

hi just read some of the other posts and imust say how sorry it turned out sooo bad for you am not into swnging ect but hey if if it floats ya boat go for it but please choose carefully in future .good luck.

6000000000000009 43M

5/12/2005 4:54 pm

I am not in your network but what hapen is really unfortunite. It is true about how difficult it is to connect with someone sincere and free of tabus. I don't know why people come into the cite and don't go through with meeting or answering e- mails for the third time, as if they are afraid to go through. I solute you for enjoying your lifestyle and living your life to the fullest. You are a very beautiful couple and I thank you for keeping hopes alive for the true people like us who hope to connect with that special one and explore our most intimite desires and needs.

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