Blame...  

carebearluv2 43F
1267 posts
5/2/2006 8:39 pm

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5/5/2006 9:32 pm

Blame...

You lied to me.

I made it so easy to do so.

You made me worry.

I let my world revolve around you.

You used me.

I allowed you to take from me.

You gave me nothing in return.

I still continued to see you.

You belittled me.

I thought you would change if I loved you enough.

You shouted at me.

I never stood up for myself.

You lead me on.

I let you dangle a pretend future in front of me.

You dumped me.

I never tried to leave you.

You made me cry.

I let you see those tears.

You abandoned me.

I let you walk away without an explanation.

You broke my heart.

I've never let myself move on.

Who's to blame really?

You for hurting me or me from allowing it to happen?


HBowt2 60F

5/3/2006 12:17 am

I allowed you to take from me.

You gave me nothing in return.

This one I know too well........and it takes 2 to do it....and only needs one to change it....


curious082385 32F
4925 posts
5/3/2006 4:23 am

Blame never solves anything though. Don't let yourself get caught up in it. The situation is what it is and wondering who should carry the blame won't change that. Spinning it around and around in your head will only cause you more pain. The only choice left now is what you will decide to learn from it.
My heart goes out to you on this one, Care.


rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
5220 posts
5/3/2006 6:59 am

I've never let myself move on.

You have to. The future is bright, the past is just a memory. If you stay there, you'll miss so much.

Good luck, and hugs.


norprin5 56M

5/3/2006 7:49 am

it's easy to assign blame...less easy to know which way...

*hugs*

King Nor XVIII


carebearluv2 43F

5/4/2006 8:24 pm

    Quoting HBowt2:
    I allowed you to take from me.

    You gave me nothing in return.

    This one I know too well........and it takes 2 to do it....and only needs one to change it....
I agree..at least I have learned from my experience. Thanks for stopping by!


carebearluv2 43F

5/4/2006 8:26 pm

    Quoting curious082385:
    Blame never solves anything though. Don't let yourself get caught up in it. The situation is what it is and wondering who should carry the blame won't change that. Spinning it around and around in your head will only cause you more pain. The only choice left now is what you will decide to learn from it.
    My heart goes out to you on this one, Care.
Thanks Z..I can always count on my twin. As I work towards closure, I tend to run all of this in my head. He left me over 2 years ago. I spent that time angry and hurt. I am now in a peaceful place where I can accept some portion of responsibility, but it's been a long road.


carebearluv2 43F

5/4/2006 8:27 pm

    Quoting rm_kelli4u2dew:
    I've never let myself move on.

    You have to. The future is bright, the past is just a memory. If you stay there, you'll miss so much.

    Good luck, and hugs.
Kel, I am finally starting to move on. I appreciate all your support in my journey.


carebearluv2 43F

5/4/2006 8:28 pm

    Quoting norprin5:
    it's easy to assign blame...less easy to know which way...

    *hugs*
Very true Nor but I think in this situation, we were both to blame. I am just now getting to the point where I can share what I believed to be his.


honestandreal30 42F

5/5/2006 8:23 am

no blame...it is useless. find your peace with the situation and go forward and not look back. life is to short to let burdens slow us down

honest
real


carebearluv2 43F

5/5/2006 9:32 pm

I am working on honest. Thanks for the good advice!


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