Standards??? Explain to me please...  

canuhandle1968 50F
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7/15/2006 7:32 am

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Standards??? Explain to me please...


I have a question for you men... Standards: do you have them regarding women, and if you do, will you bend if a woman comes along that fires you up inside despite your standards....

Story that brings me to the question... My friend and I listen to a radio station online while we're at work. She is a gorgeous woman in her 40's and has a heart of gold. She has been corresponding with a man who works at this online radio station and he once emailed me to ask me to "help" him get her to go out with him. Then he told me his "standards"... She meets NONE of them, except that she's hot. I told him this, yet he is insistant that she meet him... Theres nothing she can say to him that will deter his quest for her. She has even told him the depth of not meeting his "standards", yet his persistance continues...

So, my next question is this... Is he just trying to boost his ego by potentially getting another woman in his bed despite the fact she doesn't meet his requirements, or could he really be interested in her regardless of how much he protests going against his standards...

p.s. this has become a game for her and I, so men, beware of fucking with a woman who can battle your wits with her own...

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
7/15/2006 9:46 am

Standards??!!?......just kidding...

The guy in question is clearly on some kinda trip...I have "preferences" of course, but they are never made public to the object of my desire...that way I can change them as it suits my purpose...


canuhandle1968 replies on 7/15/2006 10:18 am:
lol... this guy just makes it easy for us to "fuck" with... He even asked her to come to a club he was going to be at and tried to "entice" her with a cd and a koozie... PLEASE!! lol

GraspCrownRusts 47M
780 posts
7/17/2006 7:45 am

And what was your friends name?... No, just kidding - bad Stevie, bad, bad Stevie... now what was it?...lol

By "Standards" do you mean physical standards or situational standards (single, no kids, etc) or mental standards (she has to be able to spell)?

To answer your question in general about men. NO. I would say that 95% of men may claim to have standards to let the woman know that she was a lucky one to get through the rigorous checklist - or that we wouldn't mess with any woman who came along - either way it won't hold up with the slightest glance from the first available woman.

Now, there are 5% who do stick to their standards, but those guys are either weird or vain and self-centered - and you probably wouldn't want to mess with those guys anyway.

I was watching Dr Drew over the weekend and he kinda talked about how the male brain is wired. In short, guys see a potential sex partner and all reason is lost...

We suck, but mostly can't help it. Make us more adorable? Uh, what was her name again? Ugh. Bad Stevie, bad, bad Stevie!


canuhandle1968 replies on 7/19/2006 3:09 pm:
Her name is................................ oh you didn't think it would be that easy did you?? lol

GraspCrownRusts 47M
780 posts
7/26/2006 7:05 am

She's prolly not nearly as fun as you are though...

Methinks you're "SL"...

Happy Humpin' Day!...


canuhandle1968 replies on 7/26/2006 2:47 pm:
Damn, now I'LL be the one up all night long tryin' to crack the code...

SL.... shuga-licious

SL... Sit-on-my-face Lickable

SL.... Swweeeeeet Lovin

In all fairness, you have to tell me if I'm hot or cold...

GraspCrownRusts 47M
780 posts
7/26/2006 3:49 pm

Well, after reading the answers you gave, can I change the meaning? I think #2 is the winner!

Gotta like an answer that changes the definition...

...of course, that will be subject to independent verification, you realize, right?... lol

here is another one for you to figure out: "put-k1do"

here are two hints: 1)most of us have at least one - some have 2 or 3. 2)some are linked to something portable or mobile and some are linked to something not mobile

bonus obscure 3rd hint: "pennsylvania 6-5000"

there's a surprise at the other end when you get it correct... lol (oops was that a 4th hint)

But yes, you are "Sit-on-my-face Lickable"


canuhandle1968 50F

7/27/2006 7:54 am

SL was hard enough... now you're gonna give me something to make me think?!?! Not fair!! lol


GraspCrownRusts 47M
780 posts
7/27/2006 9:40 am

    Quoting canuhandle1968:
    SL was hard enough... now you're gonna give me something to make me think?!?! Not fair!! lol
Well, in this case it won't work the same if you make up an answer that is better than the original - as in the case of "SL"...

...you don't want to be talking to wrong numbers, ya know?...


canuhandle1968 50F

7/27/2006 2:03 pm

If you're cingular, I'm free.............


GraspCrownRusts 47M
780 posts
7/27/2006 4:21 pm

Why am I suddenly wondering if I would be "sponge-worthy"?... hmmm...

Like two ships passing in the mid-day sun... Sprint

...but, you're surely worth it...


canuhandle1968 50F

7/27/2006 5:05 pm

KT+ WAP JR+G


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