It's so f*****g difficult  

candy69sosweet 62F
10901 posts
11/22/2005 7:48 pm
It's so f*****g difficult

to go on sometimes. When you wake up in the morning, and it's a struggle to get out of bed.....when it seems like every joint in your body aches....when even your hair hurts.....and you know that THIS is the best you're gonna feel all do ya do it? What gives you the energy to put your feet on the floor, hoist yourself up onto your two feet, and get started?

Sometimes I just wonder if it's all worth it.

What the heck is life all about anyway?

Think I'll go take some advil and get some sleep. Wish I didn't have to get up again tomorrow and do this all over again.

Kisses & Hugs,

~Friendship is a gift given from the heart and treasured forever~

rm_art_persists 53M
1789 posts
11/26/2005 2:43 pm

My wisdom is lacking so all I can do I empathize. I hate being sick too....

rm_zorro7787 59M
3 posts
11/26/2005 2:55 am

never give up hope, if you fall ten times get up 11 times..
you look great be as loud as possible, and confidence shall reign.


beewulf9 39M

11/24/2005 5:03 pm

I find hope is what helps me get through the days. May your tomorrow have less aches.

AmberSolaire 43M

11/23/2005 4:31 pm

puts gooey slime in candys bed whilst she goes for advil.Haha now the bed wont seem so inviting..last one to the end of the streets a rotten

rm_luke69iner 49M
3275 posts
11/23/2005 2:30 pm

Is it all worth it? I hope so.

What the heck is life all about anyway? Living I guess.

We are here so we might as well live because most likely we are meant to be here for some unknown reason.

Although I admit that sometimes I wish I didn't feel or care. As T.S. Eliot put it, "I should have been a pair of ragged claws Scuttling across the floors of silent seas."

Once I do shuffle off this mortal coil I sure as fuck want some answers. I always keep enough anger at existance in my heart so that if I don't like the answers on the other side I'm ready to fight.

Best wishes for you Candy and everyone else.

Keep living.

Keep loving.

Because it's what we have.

S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo

expatbrit49 64M

11/23/2005 1:37 pm

a great day of hot wet sex cures everything for a while

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

1eroticjoe 57M
3777 posts
11/23/2005 7:05 am

Life is a Journey. Some of the sights are glorious, some are frieghtening, but all are reality.

If we have never been intimate with misery...can we recognize bliss when we experience it?

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
11/23/2005 5:44 am

i usually turn over and go back to sleep

I'm a

i'm here to stay

weineroftheworld 67M

11/23/2005 4:59 am

Take a moment to recognize what you've done
Think about all the people who care about you
Remember that tomorrow will be a better day
Listen to music that makes you feel good
Eat a healthy treat (CHOCOLATE!!!)and watch a comedy
Talk to a friend
Have a hot bath
Do something nice for someone else
Do something just for you

slidein2meplz 63F
1994 posts
11/23/2005 12:28 am

Oh Candy.... me too... ouch. It sucks...go to bed in pain, wake up in pain. Fortunately not every single night and day...but far more often than I like. If you find out...pass it on. Ok? I hope you feel better really soon!! Luv ya...{=}

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

spinmedown 50M
3626 posts
11/22/2005 9:40 pm

Even my aches have pains of their own.
I hope you feel better soon, sweetie.

Most people are other people... FUCKING CHARACTER LIMIT!!! ~Oscar Wilde

funtimes532231 44M/59F
4 posts
11/22/2005 9:19 pm

Why get up?

That's like asking "why does the sun shine?"

The sun shines so that we may know the difference between night and day. Birds sing so that we may know the difference between sound and deafness (hold your hands to your ears).

Each day is an offer. An offer to do good by one another so that we may find repayment tomorrow, or to care less of ourselfs and others by committing the un-natural (crime).

Wake up and enjoy this new day, it's a new day to better your love, better your health, better your blogs ;o)

Take Care...Milwaukee

rm_Ptalk1155 35M
3450 posts
11/22/2005 8:58 pm

I have different reasons for not wanting to get out of bed, least of them being my joints, but the reason I do it is because of that difficulty. As they say, nothing worth doing is ever easy.

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