I Have My Answer  

candy69sosweet 62F
10901 posts
10/10/2005 10:47 pm
I Have My Answer

I have made my decision, thanks to my veryveryspecial friend keithcancookmeanytime, and my veryverydear friend blondeneedssex. They did what true friends do. They listened to my thoughts and feelings. They gave me feedback. They helped me through all the crap and I was able to make my decision about my Brit.

Sorry all you folks who said to go with my head and cut him loose. See, you don't know him like I do. He's not a user. He's not a jerk. He's a tender, loving man who just wants me. For me.

How can I cut him out? It would be like cutting off my right arm. More like carving out a piece of my heart. A HUGE piece. Couldn't live like that. Wouldn't want to.

So he will call me on Wednesday and we will talk. Then we will make plans for Thursday evening. And all will be right with my world.

Thank you all for your help, comments, and caring words. I realy do appreciate them. But in the end, I gotta do what is best for me. Isn't that my new motto?

~Friendship is a gift given from the heart and treasured forever~

keithcancook 61M
17930 posts
10/12/2005 2:27 pm

It's ok candysoveryverysweet! Life is but a raindrop...


10/12/2005 8:53 am

Take care L ,but just don`t run blind and forget there may be a price
to pay, Just be prepared for everything, but above else be true to YOU.

I`m here for you.

luvmatures40 59M
13 posts
10/12/2005 8:49 am

I read your entire blog today. Fascinating. Meet your ex-lover. Life is too short. If it ends in closure, so be it. If you screw his brains out, even better. There has been a significant change in your blogs since your being discovered by your husband. I miss the old you, and I think you do to. Have fun.

onelittlesecret 34M
1579 posts
10/11/2005 11:44 pm

Good luck sweetheart!

dano6332 57M

10/11/2005 6:40 pm

Sweetie just be careful
I wish you the best

keithcancook 61M
17930 posts
10/11/2005 8:52 am

Glad to help. Keep it in mind that in the end I merely told you what you wanted to hear. You would not listen to anything else.

Enjoy yourself to the fullest this week. I will always be here to assist you in picking up the pieces.

Become a member to create a blog