For my dear sweet friend Tills  

candy69sosweet 62F
10901 posts
6/20/2006 1:38 am
For my dear sweet friend Tills

I know you're hurting right now
Not only did you lose your wonderful Brian
But others on ~this friendly site~
Have taken to slandering your love for him

I wasn't going to comment on his post
It's rude and ignorant,
and doesn't deserve a comment
But because tills asked, I did.

What I want to say to you Colette
Is to ignore the folks who bad mouth you
I want you to focus your heart on Brian
And your true and abiding love for each other.

When times get rough, and you miss him
Remember that feeling you had
At 3AM this morning
And wrap his love around you

Cherish the memories you have of him
He will remain alive in your heart
Never doubt, for one second
That you didn't brighten his last months

If you need me,
You know how to reach me
I'm here for you sis
For whatever you need

Rest in peace Brian

Kisses & Hugs,
♥ Candy

~Friendship is a gift given from the heart and treasured forever~

seek_u_topia 52M

6/24/2006 1:18 pm

wonderful words for such a difficult situation. i'm sure Tiller appreciates them, and your friendship.

ella1966 51F
1528 posts
6/21/2006 4:48 am

Sorry candy, I don't get off anywhere at all. All I am saying is that I hope that people will really support and listen to Tiller and comfort her, for as long as it may take, and it may take an extremely long time, that is all. I have extremely few real friends (I would say less than 5) on this site, and I am limited in my communication with them, they can't possibly know me enough to be REAL friend as you would with someone in real life. I wasn't part of the blogging community when my trauma happened, but I sure could have used alot of support, but it was so different in my case. I know what Tiller is going through, the devastation is enormous and doesn't go away and she will need the people that really care about her not to judge her and to be available.

Thank you


6/20/2006 12:54 pm

Heart of gold {=}

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

fantasylover_05 63M

6/20/2006 10:21 am

Very very very well said Candy!!

You have expressed my thoughts and feelings so well!

Thank you..............

fun4allin2006 54M
1583 posts
6/20/2006 9:32 am

...Nice...It really is hard losing someone...It is easier with friends like you....
no FUN

frangipanigal 46F
10406 posts
6/20/2006 4:10 am

She's lucky that she does have some beautiful being one of them.

Frangi xx

ella1966 51F
1528 posts
6/20/2006 2:57 am

A beautiful tribute to Till's and Brian's love. Thank God she is blessed to have the people that truly DO care about her in her life. I hope that this caring and love for Tiller is REAL, too.

ella X

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