That was fast  

camdencutie 37F
34 posts
6/14/2005 5:27 am

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That was fast

So I got a call from my party guy last night and we talked on the phone for about and hour and a half. The call started out kinda slow as I guess we were kinda feeling out the situation, but it didn't take long before we were talking about how good it felt in his car the other night. Damn if it didn't get me turned on again to the point that I was rubbing myself while we were talking. Of course he didn't know that, and I was thinking he was probably playing with himself too, but I don't know. Anyway we talked about a lot of stuff for the next hour or so... everything from how our jobs are going to how many people we have been with. And that is kinda where it started to go wrong... I mean I am kinda confused about what he was thinking (hehe kinda normal for me when I try to figure out some men's minds). Here is how it went...

He asked me how many guys I had been with and I told him. I asked him how many women he had been with and he said 2 before, which I thought was cool. But then he seemed to be a bit upset because of how many I was with, kinda implying that I am a slut. Now like I said I am not a slut, I don't just jump into bed with anyone, so there is not an extreme number that I have been with. I asked him to explain and he said that at 25 that I had been with too many guys and it seems like I like to sleep with a guy too quickly before I know where it is going. Now remember HE asked me to got over to his place Sunday night when we were making out.

So you tell me, where his brain is. If I went with him that night, would it have been a one night stand? I tend to think so, since in his words, we don't know where the "relationship" is going. Or, if I went with him that night would he have become a stalker or a control freak thinking that I was his till he was not into it. I don't know, but we talked for about 10 minutes after this conversation, and eventually I just told him that I think it isn't going to work with us. I was relieved (and a little disappointed) to have found this out before it went farther... He sounded angry as we were saying good bye, and I am hoping that he isn't going to call again to try and see if it will work out. I guess we will wait and see.

I would love to know if I am just being young and dumb, or naive, or normal... lemme know what you think.

In the meantime.... It is still HOT and humid here... supposed to be 95 today I think But relief in the form of temps in the 70's and lower 80s is on the way YEA!

Until next time.....................kisses

rm_CBfleXXX 37M

6/15/2005 1:57 pm

Sounds like if you did go with him it wouldn't have been a one night stand. Just, two? Hmm...looking at you I think might have wanted to keep you for a while until something better came along, which would probably be long time from now. So he might have been thinking one nighter, but deep down you would be his. It depends really on what he had before. If they were two long term relationships that were spread apart than you might have hurt him a little, but you were looking out for your feelings first and much respect due. A lot of my female friends had to learn the hard way but, you got it down. Keep looking out for you because you're the only one that will. Later.

MrSojourn 59M

6/21/2005 1:18 am

Lady Camdencutie, You're not being immature; it apprears he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. Granted he shouldn't have asked if he wasn't prepared for your answer. Before he judges you (which he was doing... the ol' double standard), perhaps he needs to step back and take a look at himself. I don't know nor mean to disrespect him, but 2... just saying because I'm a man, too.

Keep doing what you enjoy and play safely, because only you can truly make yourself happy. And if I may, you're one fine sister! Just gives me more incentive to move back North one of these days...

rm_Paneurope68 49M
2 posts
11/2/2005 9:56 am

When I was younger I remember being concerned with the number of partners whoever I was dating had had before me. I think that on the whole men are collectors. We have a need to posess and not share. Sounds like the guy you met was (obviously) short on experience and wanted to feel that a cute girl like yourself could be his alone.
I can't speak for all men but I myself grew to find these feeling foolish and no longer pay them much attention. Every once in a while I find them creeping into my thoughts but I'm always able to recognize it as just being silly.

rm_Paneurope68 49M
2 posts
11/2/2005 9:59 am

Oh by the way... Your face is really cute and your breasts are spectaular. Rockin' nipples!

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