What I'm looking for in a woman.....  

bvsfun 50M
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8/26/2006 11:21 am

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8/27/2006 1:35 pm

What I'm looking for in a woman.....

Hydragenias asked on her blog what we're all looking for. I answered, in part:

"There are the physical attractions and those are great, but I tend to want to look deeper. Who's inside that outer shell? Is her personality/spirit so beautiful that I want to be with her all of the time? Is she someone that I can love for who she really is? Will she let me see who she really is before I commit heart and soul to her? Will she love me for the man I am inside? Will she let me be who I am without trying to force changes on me instead of letting me change and grow as I evolve over time?"

Now I ask:

Does that woman exist for me? Am I looking for someone who just isn't there?

I know this is a sex personals site, but aren't all we singles looking for a little more?

VCF1962 106F

8/26/2006 1:09 pm

Never give up hope. She will come into your life when and where you least expect it.

I've spent so long looking now, that I think I will just leave it to fate.

Anyone that tries to change you isn't worth your time - hell, isn't that the reason they liked you in the first place ? They saw something about you they liked, took time to get to know you and then try to change you ??? What the hell's the point ? On the other hand, don't be an enabler - be who YOU are and not who they want you to be.

Good luck - there's a big world out there that just seems to get smaller every day.

Mistress Innuendo
Taking what you say and turning it into something naughty !!

bvsfun replies on 8/26/2006 4:41 pm:
Thank you. Your words were my thoughts exactly.

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