what the fuck...  

buttercup7781 36F
65 posts
5/25/2006 9:59 pm

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6/4/2006 6:12 am

what the fuck...

A friend of mine "D" is literally getting the shit kicked out of her. Her BF is the one throwing the punches. She's in total denial about the whole damn thing..she just says but I love him THAT IS NOT LOVE it's fucking abuse. She came back from her lunch break the other day and had red splotches on her face and neck. He slammed her head against the wall and had his hands around her throat long enough for her to almost pass out.

Everyone at work knows about it now thanks to "J". Apparently she doesn't think anyone cares about what happens to her because she didn't tell us. I've tried telling her that she deserves better but she won't listen. I really don't know what to do just short of going over to her house and kicking her BF's ass.

She needs help, all she has to do is ask. But I think she's scared to do so. This isn't the first time she's come to work with marks on her. I bet it won't be the last either.

The photo says "Real men don't use violence...There is no excuse for abuse...zero tolerance for domestic abuse"



rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
5220 posts
5/25/2006 11:17 pm

Check my blog. There are links to other abuse blogs, especially soyKOFLA's. Read it, and get her help.


SleekIcilyVarix 42M

5/25/2006 11:37 pm

I can't post the web addies but you can google these resources for help.

National Domestic Violence Hotline
National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
National Network to End Domestic Violence
The National Center for Victims of Crime
National Resource Center on Domestic Violence
The Battered Women's Justice Project
National Women's Health Information Center

Hope your friend gets out of there and away from him.


HeartlessBitch69 48F

5/26/2006 10:28 pm

She will not get away from him! I think even if he beat her til she ends up in the hospital, she will go back!


secret_eyespy 55M  
488 posts
6/3/2006 4:47 pm

It sounds like it's time for an intervention on her behalf. If you love her or like her any at all you'll get her out of there FAST!!


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