Other happily singles out there - wow  

bullseyetou 64M
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12/17/2005 1:10 pm

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Other happily singles out there - wow

This is the second half of last nights blog.

I received mixed responses but found some others who actually enjoy the single life. I don't want to trade it in for a wife, a live in girl friend, or even a steady woman in my life. Not today anyway.

Maybe, someday, but as several others have shared the door is not closed but there is no welcome mat out either.

I think the hardest part of being single is the need for that tender touch from time to time. We all need it. a hug, a kiss, the body contact that delivers human warmth; something more than an emotion. I think we have a primal need to be social creatures.

However I have also noticed the need to view life from my own pinnacle, unpolluted by the desire to conform to another's needs. its not selfishness its just a desire for purity of thought. How can you be yourself when your wrapped up in another person. I know there are those who think they have acheived that in relationships, but its limited in the best of cases.

I guess the conclusion would be that in order to give up our individuality and meld with another -that other better be dam special. as we age it becomes harder to meet that person. I think its because, as we age, our life experiences have increasingly complex diversities.

ok - my brain hurts now - your turn

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