Is it time  

built2ride4u 50M
5 posts
7/16/2006 3:29 pm

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7/17/2006 4:43 pm

Is it time

I was all alone the other night, I was laying in my bed just reminiscing about my past relationship. Looking at all the good times and the bad times. Thinking to myself was there anything I could have done to save it, was it worth saving, was she wrong for me from the start? Was I just blinded by her beauty, her smile, her personality. Did I have my rose colored glasses on?

This lady could fit anywhere, she could adjust to any situation. We could go to a small town bar with the family and she was at home. I could take her to the Plaza, to the nicest restaurants and she would fit in as if she had been there a hundred times. She could walk into any room and men or women would have to take a second take at her beauty. I was so proud that she was mine. With her I felt 10 feet tall and bullet proof, she was so intoxicating. She had it all looks, body, personality, sense of humor, compassion, sensitivity, sexuality. She was a angel in public and the devil in the bedroom. She fed every desire, need and want that I had.

I’ve stood by for 7 ½ years trying and waiting for things to be right between us. I’m not perfect, I’ve made my share of mistakes and a lot of times I had to ask for her forgiveness. She loves this lifestyle here on AdultFriendFinder. I’m 38, I’m a little old fashion. I believe in love, devotion, committement and that marriage is something special and sacred. When I said I do, I meant it for life, though sickness and health, good and bad. If your asking yourself, then why are you here? My only honest answer is that I’m hurt, my heart is broken into a million pieces and right now I’m not prepared for that again right now. Its safe here for non- committed relationships(sex)

I’ve been reading blogs for sometime now, this is my first blog and I rarely every post but I’m looking for some advice. Can you help me?

1) when is it time to move on?

2) Have you ever been with someone that you just worship the ground they walk on?

3) Is the perfect woman really perfect?

4) Am I the only one that hides out here, in fear of a real relationship?

5) Is it better to cut it off clean or slowly break away?

6) Are relationships really meant to be easy or is it more gratifying when there is work involved and sacrifice?

7) Is sex enough to keep someone around?

8 ) Is there such a thing as real love anymore?

Al Green "How do you mend a broken heart"

I’LL MISS YOU BABY DOLL



fallinStrgazer 55F
388 posts
7/16/2006 8:21 pm

hi...I read this and u sound like u dont know which way to turn, I have felt that before... I too have been down that rough road ur on now, its not fun.. nor is it pretty.. I went through a pretty rough relationship this last year.. I loved him so much, but due to past relationships, he told me he just would NEVER love me but i stuck around because I thought, someday he might. so one morning I decided I had had enough, called home, made arrangements, and this is where I have been since... and I dont think ur hiding anywhere, I think confusion and uncertainty and not really wanting to let go of your relationship, thats not a bad thing, that makes u a good guy for being willing to stick it out ..slowly breaking away, only makes things worse.. if its over, its over, and even though u love her, sometimes its just best to go and move on... have a good night, and I hope the best for you. sweet dreams and goodnight


TXBITCH2006 50F

7/17/2006 4:37 pm

1) when is it time to move on? You are the only one who can figure that out. However, if you have such philosophical differences in you viewpoints about marriage, then nothing is going to change that.

2) Have you ever been with someone that you just worship the ground they walk on? Worship? No.

3) Is the perfect woman really perfect? Nobody is perfect. It's only the blinders you put on that make them that way.

4) Am I the only one that hides out here, in fear of a real relationship? I'm not hiding. I'm looking for a real relationship. I came here because I don't want a relationship with somebody who is sexually repressed.

5) Is it better to cut it off clean or slowly break away? Clean break

6) Are relationships really meant to be easy or is it more gratifying when there is work involved and sacrifice? No relationship is completely easy. At times, there will always be some work involved. Sacrifices? nobody in a relationship should be making sacrifices all of the time. Once in a while, yes, but not all the time. If you are, then you really aren't in a good relationship at all.

7) Is sex enough to keep someone around? No. You can get sex from anybody. True love, devotion and committment? That's another story.

8 ) Is there such a thing as real love anymore? yes, with the right person.


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