More Somes - Impossible Fantasy?  

bubbalooey3some 57M/52F
235 posts
8/25/2006 9:10 am

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More Somes - Impossible Fantasy?

The wife and I do very much enjoy having the occasional threesome. It seems that many men are more than willing to meet a couple with the hopes of joining them for sex.

My wife and I have been discussing the fantasy of a "More Some" for a long while now. Ideally she would like to have four or five men to play with her for an evening (of course I would be joining in as well).

Although many men claim to be interested in the idea, it is harder to arrange than one would imagine. She wanted to try having two men join us, (kind of a "warm up event") and we have tried to set that up a few times, with no success.

Now she feels like we have been talking about it long enough and wants to turn our fantasy into a reality. I would like to arrange this for her, but am kind of lost as how to go about it.

So would I have to contact like twenty people in the hopes that two or three of them would actually show? And what the hell happens if all twenty showed up? What if some of the men who showed up were not interesting to her? Do we pick the four or five who interest us and send the rest home?

Surely would not want to hurt anyone's feelings, but if we arranged to meet several men, it would not be guaranteed that all would join us. I would feel horrible picking our "team" (you, you, you, you, you - the rest can go home..)Obviously anyone we would invite would be interesting to us, but meeting in person can change the interest level..

Although I know my wife could satisfy several men and enjoy the hell out of it, I am intimidated by the process of arranging this fantasy. I would Love to be able to arrange this for her, but am not sure where to start....

If we ever turn this Fantasy into Reality I know it will be so fucking HOT. Until then we will have fun fantasizing about it. I know the idea certainly turns her on, which is what makes it so hot to me.

rm_Zeppelin6255 47M/44F
52 posts
8/25/2006 9:44 pm

You guys surely know how to have fun....I'll give you that....if you're ever interested in another couple, let us know! Good luck.

expatbrit49 64M

8/26/2006 1:38 pm

sounds like lots of fun.. good luck with it

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

trioways 46M

8/27/2006 6:10 pm

If I might give you some suggestions on how to make this happen. What you need to do is find 4 or 5 guys whom you have both met and had some fun with. Afterwards ask each one individually if they would be interested in some group activity. If they all agree, then just tell them that you will contact them. This is actually the hard part because it is very hard to get a date and time that works for everyone, but it will be worth it. But it is definetly best to work from a list of friends already, no cold calls.
Hope this helps

wraecca 40M
358 posts
8/28/2006 5:44 pm

hmmm... i had an idea but trioways may have the better idea...

i figured you could meet over some beers or at a club and get a feel for the guys before their pants were down... maybe one at a time or all at a time... i don't know.

when you knew who you wanted... you could get them to come over that way... or maybe my idea is pretty similar to trioways...

whatever... pick them before inviting them home...

good luck

rede2ba 57M/56F
21 posts
8/29/2006 4:42 pm

We have a very similar fantasy. She would like four or five guys too and I would like to photograph it. Have you had any more luck?

rm_eskiman1 57M

9/2/2006 3:03 am

Bubbalooey , with the following you have I am sure that there would be no problems gettting together 4 or guys to play with (me included )
Choosing the right guys to play together in a group is the trick.
Picking guys with experience in group sex helps as well a rookie or 2 as well , let me know Im in.

Charles4560 57M

9/4/2006 8:44 am


Well all I can say is wow! I'm also very surprised you can't find the men you need, but then again the group dynamics could cause problems if all don't get along very well.
I have been in a MFM threesome and have to say it was the most amazing experience I have had sexually speaking. Much better than MFF threesome that all men want. I found that spending the time to satisfy the woman was more than worth it...the feeling of holding a woman in your arms as she trembles during an amazing orgasm is so fantastic it's beyond words.
But back to 4 or 5 guys I love your profile and as eskiman said with your following I would think you would have no problems.

rm_bcred32 44M
4 posts
9/9/2006 3:28 pm

anymore needed ?

Pecs2die4 45M
3 posts
9/13/2006 4:06 am


I agree with trioways. We'd all love to imagine her perhaps walking into a hotel bar in heels and stockings in a tight dress to meet you for a quiet drink only to find a pack of hunks suddenly showing you undue attention....but the reality is get a bunch of trusted guys together. And overbook. Someone is bound to fail to turn up, and hey if they don't four cocks is better than three!

rm_Ktownmfm 43M
6 posts
9/17/2006 12:13 am

Hey guys,

It's been a while since I've talked to ya, been so busy with life lately.
I tried an MMFM a couple of months ago and it was great, but, It's going to be very hard to top the couple of MFM's I've had.
I think the chemistry is as important as the attraction.

Miss you guys,

rm_yogging 33
3 posts
9/21/2006 11:28 pm

If you are still interested in making her fantasy a reality and need another newbie to the group thing, I would love to hear from you. Good luck getting everything together

rm_drsteve61000 56M
7 posts
10/14/2006 9:24 am

i'll join you as a group of men to satify your wife

caub 55M
2 posts
10/31/2006 5:07 pm

Hey there,hows things today.I am moving up to Kelowna in early November
and just wanted to say my profile states I am very openminded well grounded and down to earth.I am looking forward to meeting singles and couples in the Kelowna area for fun n frolics.
Would love to hear back from you.


rm_apollo287 60M
7 posts
11/23/2006 7:48 pm

This sounds very interesting. I am open minded and willing to try. Your post seems to have been posted for some time. Have you had any success in arranging something? Are you still interested? Have you set any time frame? Are there any pre-requirements or pre-screening? I am willing to meet to be pre screened and check out if I might meet your requirements. If I interest you, I'll check back here for a response, or try to send message. I am a standard member, however, it appears that I may have been cut off from winking and sending messages....just thought would be up front about that. let me know...

rm_funluvnfrog2 64M

1/10/2007 4:54 am

Being new to the site and all. I am finding that it is a trust issue and finding sincere individuals. Life being what it is, I'm sure scheduling is the greatest complexity second to sorting through the participants. It sounds like trio has the process nailed. I hope that you were successful even with the busy holiday's if not, then the New Year is full of opportunity. Hoot, I'm still looking to participate in my first. Ahh, the hopes of Fantasy to reality.

BTW... Great Blog!!

rm_biguynstl 64M
2 posts
3/4/2007 7:37 am

If I were trying (with a willing wife) to set up a MMFMMM event, I would do it this way. My wife and I would go out to a local meeting place, start socially chatting with likely candidates then have my wife begin a stimulating sexual dialog. At that point I would share my wife's fanatasy with our new friend and suggest that we meet the following week with any others that had been recruited earlier. I feel it woould be much more personal and believable than trying to arrange the same type event through internet chat. Even if this experience didn't work out think of the fun you two will have talking about how your wife got those poor guys as hard as rocks.

rm_younus4fun 53M/53F

4/16/2007 5:08 am

Most guys we know are not wanting to be part of a bigger event. We are looking for one extra guy to join us and a friend so that there can be one guy filming and taking pics while two guys are keeping the wife happy. We will all swap around and all will get a turn at being camera man as well as playing..... After 12 months of trying to arrange it I think we may have done so but the event has not happened yet...

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