Chat Room Critics...  

brownsugdelite 46F
263 posts
8/31/2006 12:38 pm

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9/3/2006 4:20 pm

Chat Room Critics...


I have been visiting several chat rooms of late. People, not just men, are so visual sometimes. I get a lot of attention if I am on cam, but no one even acknowledges me if I am not on cam. So unless I am showing, folks have nothing to say. Never mind that most of these folks aren't showing.

I have just been observing the dynamics of the rooms of late. Women can be very bitchy, some outright, some subtlely. I guess it is the attention thing, but is this chatroom attention that important? I mean I have really observed some snideness, and not just directed at me. I was in one room, where this lady was on cam and she was getting a lot of attention. Some of the regulars were protesting and saying that she should go to a WebCam Room if she wanted to do that; they became quite vocal about it. They even complained that she was bringing the quality of the room down. Personally I found that quite hilarious. Considering this is AdultFriendFinder.

Some folks take the lofty attitude that they "will not display their goodies", with the implied disapproval for those that do. Some of these disapprovers are the first to click on your cam to see if you are showing. I mean they wouldn't know if they weren't watching.

Some get off on phone chat, some get off on watching and some get off on showing. This is an adult sex and swinger site, after all.

WebCam Vixen


rm_him_indoors 61M
9 posts
8/31/2006 12:49 pm

"adult sex and swingers site"
does that invlove the use of a liana or rope?


cuteNEway 42F

8/31/2006 1:01 pm

CATTY

SNARKY

BITCHY

ELITIST

JUDGEMENTAL

HYPOCRITES

These are all words to describe the high court of the NYC chatroom...Is that where you were when this occurred? Sure does sound like it! Girlie if I were you, I would go in there every day and focus the cam on just one tit. Just to PISS THEM OFF


brownsugdelite 46F
222 posts
8/31/2006 2:14 pm

him-lol

Cute-no I wasn't...but it seems like several chatrooms share that noteworthy distinction

WebCam Vixen


DIVISION77 40M
8337 posts
8/31/2006 7:10 pm

I really get nothing from watching cams, nor do I cam for others.

If a woman sees me naked, it's because she's having sex with me.

No other reason...

I don't have a lofty attitude, but I don't have sex with just anyone either.

Of course, if you are the only woman in the room camming it takes attention away from the women who don't cam and they are going to call you on it.

Simply a female ego trip...

Take it as a compliment, it means you are getting to them.

DIV

"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur


CARGO52 65M
128 posts
8/31/2006 9:05 pm

WHEN I FIRST JOINED I WENT TO THE CHAT ROOM EVERYDAY. I STOPPED BECAUSE OF THE LITTLE GROUP OF PEOPLE WHO WOULD ONLY TALK TO MEMBER IN THERE GROUP. I CAME HERE TO MEET AND MAKE NEW FRIENDS. I KNOW THIS IS A SEX SITE. BUT I HAVE MADE A FEW GOOD FRIENDS HERE. I USED TO CAM ALOT I STOPPED THAT TOO I WAS BEING WATCHED BY MORE MEN THAN WOMEN , I A STRAIGHT MALE AND I WATCH NOW I ONLY RESPOND IF A LADY SHOW INTEREST. FROM WHAT I HAVE SEEN OF YOUR CAMS SHOW IF THEY DON'T WANT TO CHAT WITH YOU THERE LOSS NOT YOURS........CARGO

Cargo 52


brownsugdelite 46F
222 posts
9/1/2006 10:23 am

Div-its not only women who are being snide

Cargo-so many folks on this site are so hypocritical

WebCam Vixen


DIVISION77 40M
8337 posts
9/2/2006 4:26 pm

    Quoting brownsugdelite:
    Div-its not only women who are being snide

    Cargo-so many folks on this site are so hypocritical
Yes, delite, PEOPLE are snide.

You're going to find that anywhere, even on AdultFriendFinder.

Different people have their own ideas of proper decorum in terms of sex and what's appropriate.

If they don't approve of your camming, of course they are going to speak on it.

Just ignore them...

Do what you do.

DIV

"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur


rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
9/3/2006 9:20 am

Delite..if you choose to go to those chat rooms..expect people to behave much the same as in real life. If you're an attractive woman..you're going to get the jealously from the other women..when the men show you attention.

Men are just as hypocritical as women..when it comes to how sexual expression is viewed in our society. Some men..when they are sexually aroused..in a setting where others are watching..will strike out at the object of their arousal. For example..think about the times..men in the work place have turned against women they've found attractive.

If you continue to visit..be prepared to take the heat.

Seems I've been reminding people of this saying a lot lately...
"You can't please everyone..so you may as well please yourself".

Kiss

Kiss


rm_kclove471 60M
2 posts
9/3/2006 10:36 am

Delite....Your observation is 100%. If you don't show, then you don't get the attention. You do show, you get the haters, baby girl it's dog eat dog out there. I read Kiss comment, and I totally agree with her. "You can't please everyone...so you may as well please yourself"...after all, no one has to answer to you, AND YOU DEFINTELY DON'T HAVE TO ANSWER TO ANYONE.


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