Hello all  

boredhubby96 39M
5 posts
8/31/2005 1:41 pm

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Hello all

Just thought I start a little blog for anyone who is married, but wants some fun on the side.

First about me. I have been married for 6 years, and I admit I love my wife. Problem is her sex drive is considerably less than mine, not to mention her lack of imagination, so I decided to look for some outside excitement. Anyone who is in the same boat is invited to post comments here.

Have fun and be safe all!

rhinodave8 53M
3 posts
8/31/2005 2:54 pm

Good idea, try being married for 18 years... the wife has no sex drive at least not with me anyway... so I figure I would give this a shot...

It is very easy for me anyway to just go and pick up someone in a bar but I am looking more for females that are just looking for an occasional good time with no strings...

I think thats what is needed in this world to keep marriages healthy... Its not that you dont love your spouse but its too easy to get a divorce and then get another spouse and when you get bored with that one get a divorce....

maybe I am the minority here but if you just get a little on the side every now and then I feel that you can have a happy marriage and make it work... and just dont be jealous over anything... thats the most important thing.... its just sex ya know.... besides you should look for things you dont normally do at home...

ok enough for my opinion on the matter... but then again I always have an opinion on something LOL....

thr3sum 35M/F
117 posts
8/31/2005 8:31 pm

so then Tom Leykis is right it must just be cheaper to stay Married. How about inviting you wife to do more interesting things... I'm married and it's only been a year, but this AdultFriendFinder has spiced up our sex beyond some of my wildest dreams...imagine what is to come.

boredhubby96 39M
1 post
9/1/2005 6:15 am

Since the question was asked. Personally I stay married for several reasons. First, I love my wife. We connect on several levels, we have many of the same interests, we have children together, etc. I do want to make it together, and who knows, maybe she will come around in the long run. They say that the 40's are a woman's peak sexual time, so who can say? But as of right now, things are just too slow at home.

And as Rhinodave pointed out, sometimes getting some action on the side can actually help at home. Just be sure to be safe... after all none of us want to bring anything home.

Be safe all

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