I'm giving up ;(  

boredhousewife30 44F
111 posts
11/28/2005 8:31 pm

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I'm giving up ;(

Ok here is an update on my "friend" that I met at my cousins party..
I am calling it quits with him, for the simple fact that our schedules are near impossible to work around and when the oppurtunity does arise, he is always a no show. At first I thought it was because he might have regretted kissing me in the beginning, but I asked him and he reassured me he had no regrets at all. Then I thought maybe this isn't something he wanted to do (have an affair), but he is the one that kept pushing it. I didn't call him, he called me almost everyday for the last month. This past Friday we were supposed to hook up, and neither of us had partners to work around. I spoke to him in the middle of the day and he said he would call me back in a few hours to set up a time. Well guess what....HE NEVER CALLED! I was so pissed! So I decided at that point I am done with him and if he calls me (i'm sure he will) I am going to blow him off..SO off with the old and on with the new..

bigfurrybear 42M

11/28/2005 8:41 pm

Well baby there are a lot of people out there that seem to love talking the talk but when it comes time to actually hook up they chicken out. Don't take it personally. There are others out there.

Good luck!

doublehungpair 57M/45M  
4 posts
11/29/2005 3:44 am

Don't give up so soon you should give us a try first, you won't regret it!

boredhousewife30 44F

11/29/2005 6:22 am

Oh I'm all about the bisexual thing..check out my profile

rm_Lethal_N_Jex 47M/47F
8 posts
11/29/2005 6:24 am

Jexxy would love to fuck you, and she will not stand you up.

boredhousewife30 44F

11/29/2005 6:24 am

Thanks for your post, you are so right. It is funny how when someone has a few drinks in them they have balls of courage, and even sober over the phone. But like you said when it comes down to it they chicken out...I wouldn't want to be with him anyway if he is a pussy and can't follow through with what he says...

Good Luck and Play Safe

greatguyforutof 54M

11/29/2005 1:55 pm

Hey bored,

Read many of your posts. My guess is his wife either caught on, or he got cold feet. Either way, I'm with you.....cannot stand for people who do not follow through. Its hard enough being married and trying to keep an affair on the side that doesn't hurt anyone, but when communication is lost with your lover, so is the trust. My Suggestion is to continue to look to hook up with someone married like yourself, never a single person because they have nothing to lose (your concern with getting caught and losing your current homelife situation). I learned this the hard way as the I was seeing a single woman once and then all of a sudden she is asking you to leave your wife for her, even though I was straight about what I was looking for.

Also, the sex is better because you both enjoy it more. When your single, its a lot easier, but you relish it when your married and can only see that lover a few times a month.

greatguyforutof 54M

11/29/2005 1:59 pm

Oh, one last suggestion. I wouldn't see this guy again mainly because he knows your cousin......its too close to home. I recommend you tell noone about what your up to, not even your close friends. The best way to keep this a secret is to keep it a secret from everyone!

boredhousewife30 44F

11/29/2005 4:46 pm

Thanks for the great advice!

rollwithit1962 55M
1 post
12/1/2005 8:18 am

Hey - i will tell you what...i have been in a boring (but caring) relationship for some time now and i understand you're need for (a) discretion and (b) excitement. i have tried the route with a single (and younger) woman and that is not the way to go for sure...no risk, no liability. that's why i am looking for someone who, like me, wants needs met in a mutually inclusive fashion. i'd have coffeee with you sometime if you want to talk more...let me know and take care

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