Day One...  

bondagefun2006 57M
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3/31/2006 11:05 am

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Day One...


I'm generally a pretty laid back kind of a guy and sex has never been a big problem for me...if anything, I tend to 'give' more than I receive...which my partners certainly enjoy, yet it tends to be a bit of a letdown for me. As a result, although I certainly enjoy sex, I find that it's not as big an issue for me as it might be for other guys or gals...alot of times I'm well into a relationship before my partner decides to make the first move...and I'm more than happy to continue going out on dates to museums, taking long walks at the beach, going to movies, hanging out at cafes...anything other than jumping into the sack. It's almost as if I feel that having sex with a woman signals the beginning of the end of the friendship...the sex will be great (for a while), then, sooner or later, 'familiarity breeds contempt' starts to set in and it's the beginning of the end...on top of which, I really enjoy introducing some bondage to my sex play and the responses to this have been mixed...it's not as if I'm coming out in leather and chains on the first date...I usually let the sexual relationship go for a time before I even make the first tentative mentioning of it...after all, in something like this, you need trust...the results here have been varied...some have been out and out unwilling (a minority, I must admit)....the average response is for some tepid experimentation which eventually fizzles out...it seems as if there are very few women out there who have an active/creative imagination when it comes to the bedroom...and of course, I find that pretty depressing. Any thoughts on this?

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
3/31/2006 1:20 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

Actually I found your attitude refreshing in many ways. I think you are right that sometimes sex signals the beginning of the end of a friendship. At that point...it needs to go somewhere...up or down. I have never really done bondage at all....but I'd be interested in trying if I truly trusted my partner. I hope you find what you are looking for here. And blog on!


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