Random phones calls  

bluegirl39 51F
100 posts
4/21/2006 8:25 am

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5/20/2006 6:58 am

Random phones calls

okay I get these random phone calls from guys who were in the military with my x-husband..you know telling me they heard the news and how sorry they are to hear about it/suprised ect. Before long they are asking me if I'de like to get together and talk ect. What is up with that? I didn't talk much with the guys he worked with and now they call..maybe thinking..oh yeah always wanted to screw her or what? I did get one phone cal from some lady wanting to know where he was...must have been one of the woman he was screwing when we were married..Boy life is crazy...

rm_gigolo394 51M
136 posts
4/21/2006 8:59 am

Indeed...it's just too crazy

rm_LoyalCumpany 47M
3204 posts
4/22/2006 5:56 am

You could have just given the lady one of those guys' phone numbers. Sounds like it would have stopped a couple of them from calling at least.

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rm_stubby241 57M

4/22/2006 8:49 pm

Maybe, It's me being naive again, but perhaps they know/knew what was going on and are reaching out with a peace offering.
Being in the military is like having a huge family. You just never know how much support there really is out there until its needed.
That lady call sure is weird though. Could have told her your story, so the same thing doesn't happen to her.

bluegirl39 51F

4/23/2006 7:21 am

I have had a few just a few phone calls of sorry to hear the news and offers of someone to talk to. However these are very few (two). I have also had phone calls from a few people that tell me they knew he cheated but didn't know how to tell me, but these calls are from men and the offer to meet normally is something else. Since I went back to my maiden name the calls have fallen off..thank goodness

loadeddice05 45M

4/23/2006 8:07 am

MILITARY MEN!! Cooped up together!! You know they share everything??? LOL!!

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