The Domesticated Rock Star  

blackstiletto 34F
122 posts
2/17/2006 5:57 am

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3/17/2006 9:58 pm

The Domesticated Rock Star

I met this guy a while back. Under very unusual circumstances I might add. We acquainted really well that first night we met, blew him over on some little known fact about the rainbow and we've sort of been dating and meeting up ever since. I actually thought him to be giddy the first time around, tries too hard to be a rock star and maybe a little self-absorbed but he needs some getting used to until you start to find him attractive in a somewhat delirious way. He's the kind of guy who's just so fucking adorable, I feel like I want to hurt him sometimes. Just a big tight slap. Y'know?

So he SMSed on Valentine's night asking for a favor. He wanted me to go see him at his workplace. I said okay at first but at the last minute I thought, "Why the hell should I go?". It's not like he's my boyfriend or anything. So I bailed at the end. Sent him an SMS which was quite insensitive of me along the lines of 'you're nobody to me so I shouldn't have to go see you'. I felt bad but I had to get the point across because some guys just can't get it. I told him I'd go see him some other time. And so, Valentine's day passed...

I met up with him just the other day in KL. I wanted to introduce him to a friend of mine so I made a date with him, telling him to meet me at a specified time and place. The bad news was, my friend and I was horribly late and we made him wait for almost 2 frickin' hours! This time, I felt like a total idiot. I know I myself hate waiting for anything but making someone else wait was just unacceptable for me. And as if I don't feel bad enough, sometime down the line he tells me that he has a rose waiting for me. He has kept it since Valentine's day and he still has it in a fridge at his workplace. *lol* He intended to give it to me the night I bailed on him. And there I was, feeling like a complete ass for being so apprehensive over nothing.

Just when I felt like I had a good reason to stay away from him, he turns around and does something sickly sweet like that. I hate it when that happens. For some reason, he always manages to find the right words to say or the right things to do and at the right time. Yes, I felt like slapping him for being so sweet. But at least at the end I got the rose, withered and all.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
2/17/2006 6:29 am


Purry {=}


Holly_Would 107F

2/17/2006 6:57 am

Sounds like you two might have some making up to do and that can be fun to get back on track.

lithiumrose 39F

2/18/2006 11:23 am

You bailed on him?! The poor guy!!!

LOL. He probably had something sweet set up for you. And yes, he is the sort you wanna spank around just because, well... just because. But still, he is decent guy, Black, and lol, you guys need to make up or something.

rm_SmallDevil75 42M
1 post
2/18/2006 11:58 pm

Good on you mate,
Sometimes you need to move on

blackstiletto 34F

2/19/2006 4:30 pm

Holly_Would - Made up for it, I sure did! *wink wink nudge nudge* *lol*

lithiumrose - Yeah, it was sort of a 'playing hard to get' plan gone haywire. I consulted some friends about that and they thought I did the right thing by not going to see him that night. Besides, he was okay with it. Totally made up for.

lithiumrose 39F

2/20/2006 6:27 am

[blackstiletto handle] well so long he is cool about it, it's cool. He is sweet, no?

blackstiletto 34F

2/22/2006 6:43 pm

lithiumrose - You're really trying hard to push him my way, aren't ya? Cute. Yeah, he's sweet but I've got too much issues and I don't want to be the one to obstruct him from having a good time. He's free to mingle around with other hotties and he knows that.

Lucky prick. *lol*

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