Single & The City  

blackstiletto 34F
122 posts
2/13/2006 8:26 pm

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3/19/2006 8:24 pm

Single & The City


Dear Loved Ones,

It's Valentine's morning. I can't help but think to myself that I've been single for almost 3 years now. I've been on a string of flings and makeshift 'relationships' between then and now but sometimes I scare myself thinking that I might just be single for another 3 years if I continue on like this. No, I'm not longing to be in a relationship but I am in quite a predicament in which I want to be in a relationship sometime but am so afraid to. Do I sound crazy?

Someone very wise once told me, "Your mind is stronger than your heart, even the smallest things can leave a big scar on you." I guess I truly believed him. What he said is true. That saying lead me to who I am today, understanding the very things that can hurt me and learning ways in which to avoid or defend myself from the very people who could potentially harm me. I guess that's why I choose to be single - I just didn't want to get hurt.

"To love someone means to give that person permission to hurt you."

This has been one of my biggest principles towards life and love. It's worked for me all this time and yes, I've never been hurt since. I admire those who have been in a long and loving relationships, who spend the rest of their lives just to make their partners happy. I used to walk by this huge park when I was in college and every evening or two, I would catch an elderly couple walking slowly hand-in-hand like they were still giggling teenagers. And I often thought to myself, "Will I ever come to that?". I really wished. I've never been in love, sadly, but I wish one day I would. And as I would have it, I truly hope he loves me more.

It's Valentine's Day. Tell someone you love them.

Sincerely,
The Perpetual Single Girl

lithiumrose 39F

2/14/2006 4:45 am

Love is a game of chance, sweetie, and being hurt is parcel of life. Hell, even loving a parent could be painful when they decided to be an ass or something similar.

Being single is fun, but sometimes, having someone who shares a long walk with you in a park and talking nonsense, is fun...

Hugs Happy Valentine darling...


blackstiletto 34F

2/17/2006 4:13 am

cummalot3 - I'm not lonely. I've plenty of great friends (and family) around me that I appreciate. The post was of my thoughts on love. It's not meant to criticise or to condemn anybody who is in a relationship and no, I'm not negative about love. How shallow do you think I am? You have your own views, I have mine. Never in my post did I say being single was a curse. I love my single bum and am enjoying it. Actually, those 2 quotes saved my ass more times than I can count. And by the way, I had nothing against you until you referred to one of my friends as 'dumbass'. Anybody who calls any of my friends 'dumbass' is not worthy being listened to. I have very little tolerance with rude people. That's my opinion. Sue me. IGGY!


lickUCunt 43M
2 posts
3/19/2006 1:03 am

yeah I agree with you that sometime being single is not being lonely. Only thing that I always think of sex when I am alone. I always long of having good sex whem travelling and being lonely in Hotel room.


lickUCunt 43M
2 posts
3/19/2006 1:05 am

yeah! I agree with you that sometime being single is not being lonely. Only thing that I always think of sex when I am alone. I always long of having good sex whem travelling and being lonely in Hotel room.


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