She ain't heavy, she's my sister.  

blackstiletto 34F
122 posts
1/20/2006 9:17 am

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4/15/2006 1:40 pm

She ain't heavy, she's my sister.

I can't believe I fell for this... after reading a few of my buddies' blogs with a lot of time in my hands, this is what I got. Me own blog! Yay me! *churns out the welcoming band* LOL

That apart, what's a girl like me doing at home, face planted in front of the computer, tapping aimlessly on the keyboard on a Friday night when I could be out there having one hell of a party? There's a perfectly good explanation... and this one's for lithiumrose.

After LR called earlier tonight, I spinned the Black Eyed Peas on the CD player. It was my sister's favourite. I always advised her to keep her body moovements at a minimum because of her fairly large size, but being a complete ignoramus, she started dancing madly to 'My Humps' and lo and behold... she fell with 'crack' and a disturbing 'thud'. Next I saw her, she was sprawled out on the floor like a beached whale. Turns out, she pulled several muscles and dislocated her ankle. I'm not even gonna start about how I actually got her to the clinic.

But it wasn't about that.

What happened after we got back was what really tried me as an older sister. She couldn't walk so I carried half her weight (she weighs twice as much as I do) while she leaned on me just to get back in the house. And with only one functioning foot, she couldn't bathe nor dress herself... so I bathed her (OKlah, I really just sprayed her with water while she soaped...LO and I dressed her, all while carrying her on my back from one room to another. The best thing was, she really had only one thing to ask in return... that I stayed home with her for the night. So that's what I did.

I politely declined LR's invitation. While I could be partying the night away, despite the wheelchair and 'tempang' and 'rollerblade-infused feet' jokes I threw at her, I did what she really needed me to do... I feel great.

norprin5 56M

1/20/2006 11:37 am

welcome to blogland!

King Nor XVIII

junglejim47172 57M

1/20/2006 12:37 pm

Welcome, Blackstiletto. You're a good older sis. I'm know where near so large as my older sis, but she and my older brother (who would call after he talked to her) would both be on my ass for months.

PS Sorry you had to stay in. Make it up Saturday.

birchingphobia 41M

1/20/2006 6:38 pm

Ohhhh... So here is where you've been hiding. Can I ask your sister out sometime? Honest... she'll be safe with me.

And yes... YOU DID GOOD!

klbunny 46F

1/20/2006 10:13 pm

Hey baby sis...well done!!! Am proud of you for looking after you lil sister!
Just shows what a HUGE heart you have....and Im so glad I've met you!

Next time you plan to go out with Lithium or any of us....put on something slow and steady on the avoid a repeat performance! and bring the house down with us instead!!!!

Keep it up hun!! ((((((HUGGGSSSS))))))))

lithiumrose 39F

1/24/2006 12:22 am

Hugs... so that's what happened... hey next time, we go partying out with the guys at somewhere interesting, yeah? I had a great time that sat night. My poor thighs though.

rm_rairen82 35M

1/24/2006 10:48 pm

halo!!! looks like you all party a lot huh??? well there goes my invite to you to go yam cha its ok well if you feel like it just mail me then we'll get all the details straight to lepaking rite cheers.....

blackstiletto 34F

1/25/2006 7:04 pm

birchingphobia - Sure thing. If you take me with you. *lol*

klbunny - *big hugs* Haven't seen you in ages! We really need to catch up real soon.

cummalot3 - Stay away from my sister, you pervert! *hits you with a handbag*

lithiumrose - I had an awesome time too. Now I need to rest my legs for the rest of the week. *lol*

ppppingu 46M
26 posts
1/28/2006 4:42 am

YES you DID do VERY VERY good..... U lovely person you...

ppppingu 46M
26 posts
1/28/2006 4:44 am

and have yourself alotta fun with ya blog....

rm_K1s5M3 38M/F
1 post
3/22/2006 11:05 am

nice to meet u

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