The Cliff Notes on Date #2 with #64  

bipolybabe 56F
10715 posts
8/25/2006 8:13 am

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9/26/2006 1:26 am

The Cliff Notes on Date #2 with #64

For those of you with too short attention spans (that would be most of us on AdultFriendFinder) for the novel-length version of [post 482773], here are the bullet points:

* Black guy, laughs a lot
* He cleared the sky of spiderwebs on our walk to the park 'cuz he's ONE FOOT taller than I. I'm 5'7".
* I call him ChocolateMountainMan or ChocolateMM.
* We talked about sex. I got felt up in the park.
* We showed one another our racy sex site stuff like this blog.
* We did not fuck.
* Yet.

And, then I ask you...

Should I go for the sex in case the relationship thing doesn't work out? Or is that dumb and self-defeating thinking?

Oh, and just so you know, I never play games about sex. My heart's been banged around lately, and I feel kinda bruised. But, my body's still ready for sex. What's a juicy woman to do?

(c) 2006 AskAphrodite aka BiPolyBabe


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nightis 54M

8/25/2006 9:46 am

Didn't we just recently have this talk? I thought it was about the brain as well as the sex. Sometimes you women just can't steer clear of the occasional tempting cock!

Women can be such sows at times!


wickedeasy 68F  
31350 posts
8/25/2006 9:59 am

bips BPB

go masturbate and give this time to BE



and what happened to you calling me? huh?

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

pictureunaked 57M

8/25/2006 10:58 am

You gotta decide what you want. Is this a true love possibility? How long do you want the relationship to last? 1 month? 6 months? A couple of years? The rest of your life? How will you know if this guy is long-term material until you spend a significant amount of time with him? If you're with him 5 years from now, will the time you invested in the beginning seem so hard? Of course not-- they'll be some of your fondest memories.

Why fuck him? Is it for lust, or love? At this point, how could it be anything other than lust? If you're looking for love, you gotta be patient. Love is a long-term investment-- the payout comes much later. Lust is great, but once satisfied, you move on.

bipolybabe replies on 8/26/2006 8:19 am:
Great point about how long do I want it to last?

I guess that's where I'm still unclear, and until I'm clear, the Universe will send me "love" that could last a night, three weeks or a lifetime.


howaboutahuck 67M
489 posts
8/25/2006 1:12 pm

You will need to make up your mind on this one. But it sounds like a simple case of live-in penis rebound. Break out the sex toys and let this develop.


spacecadet561 61M

8/25/2006 2:14 pm

Part of me is surprised you haven't jumped his bone already.

Seriously, though, it sounds like you have a craving to get fucked, so as Jim said, go ahead and fuck him. Just take the appropriate precautions, and remember that he may be a bit larger than you're used to getting.


suzsuks 46F
25 posts
8/25/2006 5:21 pm

From my perspective, if you mind knows what your body wants and is content to stay out of the way and just let you enjoy then go for it. If your mind is going to get in the way then perhaps now is not a good time to get intimate with someone. On the other hand, maybe your mind will decide that it likes what your body is getting and things will blossom into more.

ProtonicMan 49M

8/25/2006 6:15 pm

I left my answer on your other post.


freebreeze_0 65M
40 posts
8/26/2006 9:34 am

You need to fuck him right now!

If you wait and rage on him in a PMS state, he'll be gone

bipolybabe replies on 8/26/2006 5:40 pm:
That's what you and I both think, Dude.


rm_Kingcat4U2 66M
2799 posts
8/26/2006 6:19 pm

Silly girl. All this fancy talk and
what you really want is a little
revenge sex on your LIP. "Oh, look, LIP,
I just happened to find this chocolate
stud muffin, and SEE WHAT I CAN DO!!!
(I left out the words "you bastard")
Do it, get it overwith, and then
maybe you can move on to someone who
will satisfy you emotionally and
physically. Rebound periods are
always tough. Good luck, girl.

IamWetFire 54F

8/26/2006 6:24 pm

This is such a tough call, sweetie. It's difficult to not think with the yoni when you meet someone who strikes just that right chord with you. (Like me last night with M. . .Mother of Pearl I want that man something terrible now!)

When you know in your heart that a simple "damn good fuck" isn't sufficient to your needs, you can steer clear of this sort of question. But. . .as with me, the mind says one thing (usually the right thing), and the yoni is SCREAMING something else.

Take some more time. If you feel like you can get both needs met at once with CMM, then go for it. If not. . .keep the faith, hold tight to your needs and wait for "further instructions" from God/Goddess/Universe at Large. I know. . .total cop-out answer, but I don't want to see you get kicked around anymore!

elysianpleasure 49M

8/26/2006 7:36 pm

Its all up to you... just take care of yourself along the way.

rm_sexxikritter 53F
2715 posts
8/26/2006 9:39 pm

What is so wrong with getting to know the man better before jumping into bed with him? One of the things that seperates men from animals is our ability to control our urges, sexual urges included. If you are overwhelmingly horny, then get out the toys and have at it. Perhaps this is one reason our society is in the position it is in now....too many people not beingin control of their urges. JMHO


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