Make Your Dick Longer & Harder  

bipolybabe 56F
10715 posts
5/31/2006 1:08 am

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Make Your Dick Longer & Harder

In discussing male multiple orgasms last night on webcam with some very experienced male practitioners of Tantric sex (See What is Tantra What's a TantraSlut), we learned about a number of supplements that can increase your ability to cum bucketloads.

No, I'm not selling these products. As a Sex Coach, I recommend that men learn to separate orgasm and ejaculation and become multi-orgasmic without frequent ejaculation (see Ejaculatory Control Male Multiple Orgasms), but for some reason, dudes seem to like to spew. It must be the influence of "money shots" in porn.

Anyway, one of our sexperts says he's tried life with these supplements and life without and life with them is better...bucketloads better. So here goes:

muira puama 1ml bid

Horney goat weed (Epimedium sagittatum) 500mg bid

Avena sativa 1ml bid

Trace mineral supplement:

These are all available at a website called Puritan dot you-guessed-it.

And, if you'd like to Make Your Dick Longer and Harder, you can practice a technique called "jelquing," which is discussed here:

www.thundersplace dot org

Questions of the Day:

So, if you "jelq," how well has it worked for you? Any other remedies for shooting bucketloads?

And, do women like men to shoot a ton of cum?

(c) 2006 AskAphrodite aka BiPolyBabe


Check out my blog Bi-Poly-Babe for more sensual, sexual pleasure!

Intensity4U 53M
7432 posts
5/31/2006 8:37 am

Hey BPBabe,
I couldn't make your webcast. I don't think I've had orgasms without ejaculating unless I was like... empty ...or 10 yrs old. So, I have a couple questions about the orgasm/ejaculation issue.

1 - Are non-ejaculatory orgasms supposed to be as intense?
2 - Is there a reason to separate the two... (a) If you can last as long as your partner likes? (b) If you can have multiple orgasms with ejaculation?
3 - Do women want guys to cum bucketloads?

For me, arousal level determines "spew force" and I would imagine quantity (as far as I can tell). Also, I drink a lot of pineapple juice to increase sweetness (I'm a sensitive man) and wonder what effect something called "Horney goat weed" would have on that - do you have any feedback?

bipolybabe replies on 5/31/2006 9:13 am:
GREAT questions!

I'll do some research about "horney goat weed," respond and revise my article on "Let's Talk Ejaculatory Control."

rm_Twister2bed 48M
617 posts
5/31/2006 9:03 pm

Non ejaculatory orgasms? I should probably read the rest of your posts but if by that you mean almost cum and then control it so you don't cum and still expierience the the sensation I can do this but then I can't cum when my partner is ready for it like over stimulation or hmmm something like that. till I take a break and go for round two.....
Never mind I just confused myself and forgot what my question was.

On a Side Note.....Reguarding Horny Goat Weed
WASHINGTON -- The Food and Drug Administration warned consumers yesterday not to buy or use the supplements Actra-Rx or Yilishen because they contain an ingredient that could lower blood pressure to unsafe levels.

The FDA also moved to block imports of the supplements, calling them "dangerous ... and even life-threatening." The agency said the supplement bears the name Yilishen when it is imported from China and is sold as Actra-Rx within the United States.

Laura Alvey, an FDA spokeswoman, declined further comment, saying the matter is under investigation that may lead to criminal or civil enforcement actions.

I am not certain but I think horny goat Weed falls under this catigory.
Herbal rems can also be over used because guys think more is better.

bipolybabe replies on 6/1/2006 5:27 am:
Thank you for the info. I'll check on that.

About non-ejaculatory orgasms, what I mean is full body orgasms and/or intense penile contractions without ejaculation. So, it sounds like you're doing it.

Now, this is darned interesting about then not being able to ejaculate when you want to as if you're overstimulated. Would you mind being interviewed about it?

I'm personally fascinated with sex in every way and what I learn from you could be helpful for others!

rm_Twister2bed 48M
617 posts
5/31/2006 9:07 pm

Hmm I should use spell checker too because I'm a moron when I type fast without looking at the screen. Sorry about that

rm_5Hawkeye6 62M

5/31/2006 11:03 pm


I love your Blog; wish I'd found it months ago. You are very open & helpful - I only wish you lived next door! (I'd be over every morning for coffee..)

I've had non-ejaculatory orgasms many times, but I don't have all that much control over them. I do have trouble ejaculating later. If I have them after ejaculating, no problem, improved intensity! Sometimes they happen after I've been drinking.

I tried jelquing last year after my divorce - anything to bolster my wounded pride - didn't add length, but it did increase girth and erection time & intensity. You have to keep doing it though, at least a few times a week or the effects diminish (heh,heh).

Hey, keep up the good work - you're doing a service for all 'mankind' - whether we're man enough to admit that or not.

bipolybabe replies on 6/1/2006 5:21 am:
Thank you. It's my mission in life to "save the world one fuck at a time." My personal Goddess of Good Fucking prefers that they be good ones--for men and women!

bipolybabe replies on 6/1/2006 5:29 am:
Thank you for your kind words, gentle sir.

PS--I make a very strong cup of coffee!

imLadyBambi 59M/51F

6/1/2006 3:23 am


I can honestly say that Mr.Bambi cums just the right amount for me.

And that is something that really doesn't concern me, the only concern is that he is satisfied and that he doesn't get the "Blue Balls)!!LOL

Lady Bambi

bipolybabe replies on 6/1/2006 5:24 am:
You are a sensitive and caring woman, Ladi Bambi. I actually don't care if my lover gets blue balls or not. My assumption is...he can take care of his need to orgasm pretty easily whenever he wants to.

Likewise, I take responsibility for my own orgasms. I don't expect my lover to make me come.

I try to remember that the only goal for sex is pleasure and to stay with that 'cuz I have a tendency to be a rather goal-oriented kinda chick.

rm_Twister2bed 48M
617 posts
6/1/2006 9:46 am

Not at all I don't mind interviews. The quickest thing that comes to mind to explain it is sensory overload when I hold back a few times.

Intensity4U 53M
7432 posts
6/2/2006 7:19 am

In his pre-interview post above, Twister2bed said "Non ejaculatory orgasms... if by that you mean almost cum and then control it so you don't cum and still expierience the the sensation I can do this but then I can't cum when my partner is ready for it like over stimulation or hmmm something like that."

That I can relate to - with a similar issue when it's then time to cum. I wouldn't say I can't cum but it's more difficult and less intense. Stopping as an orgasm begins seems to lessen the sensation considerably when I later do try to cum - definitely not a full body spasm experience. I've never thought of that as "non-ejaculatory orgasm" more like "orgasm interuptus." Sometimes this also results in an ejaculation without orgasm which is the opposite of what you're recommending - but I'm sure there's exercises to deal with that...

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